Am I the only one who gets really annoyed when my significant other doesn't tell me what she's doing and makes me a part of plans without asking me. Like we are in the middle of a convo and then she disappears for an hour because she was eating and watching tv, but I don't find out until afterwards that she was doing that. Things like that happen a lot and it really bothers me, should I chill out or should she just let me know she's doing something or going somewhere before she dissapears?
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melusine2908:
Have you talked to her about this? Maybe she doesn't even realize that this bothers you, but if it does maybe telling her would really help, if you don't like something in a relationship always speak out, specially if it is something that is really getting to you...Â
thekillad2:
@melusine2908 we have talked about it a couple times :/ I probably didn't explain it well enough to her before so I spoke to her again about it and used examples and reasons it bothers me, hopefully that fixes it