I'll be down for most of the day today. I was moving my computer desk dowstairs, when it slipped, and when I twisted to stop it, I wrenched the hell out of my lower back.
On the other hand, I finally got some use out of having a massuse for a roommate. He snapped the joint back in place in about 10 seconds flat. Now I just need to chill for the rest of the weekend. I already feel better. I knew living with a massage therapist would come in handy one day.
In brighter news, things are progressing well with the girl I'm seeing. I know I must like her a lot, because we had a long discussion two nights ago in which I learned that she is, in fact, a virgin, and plans on staying one for the forseeable future, and it had no effect on my desire to keep going out with her.
It's strange. The last time I dated a virgin, early last summer, it felt as though she was using it like a poker chip, something which she could maintain control over the relationship. It doesn't feel that way with "K". She talks about sexuality openly and honestly, without being dogmatic, or judging anything I told her about my own sexual history (about which I was so open I surprised even myself).
Fuck it, why pussyfoot around? This is an open-minded community, right? She's inspired me, so I'll just be open with all of you about the fact that I've been with guys before. I'm not gay, I wouldn't even say I was bi. Sexuality is fluid. I refuse to label myself, and I know that can confuse or even irritate people.
Saying this is something I've been edging up on, hell, I've been a member of the SGLBTQ group for like two weeks now. Will I regret posting that to the internet? Time will tell. I'm tired of being coy when people ask about my life. My personal life is my buisness, and I say let others have their judgements, it's not my problem anymore.
I like this girl.
I like my job.
Life finally seems like it's coming together.
Love to you all.
New pics forthcoming. Seriously.
On the other hand, I finally got some use out of having a massuse for a roommate. He snapped the joint back in place in about 10 seconds flat. Now I just need to chill for the rest of the weekend. I already feel better. I knew living with a massage therapist would come in handy one day.
In brighter news, things are progressing well with the girl I'm seeing. I know I must like her a lot, because we had a long discussion two nights ago in which I learned that she is, in fact, a virgin, and plans on staying one for the forseeable future, and it had no effect on my desire to keep going out with her.
It's strange. The last time I dated a virgin, early last summer, it felt as though she was using it like a poker chip, something which she could maintain control over the relationship. It doesn't feel that way with "K". She talks about sexuality openly and honestly, without being dogmatic, or judging anything I told her about my own sexual history (about which I was so open I surprised even myself).
Fuck it, why pussyfoot around? This is an open-minded community, right? She's inspired me, so I'll just be open with all of you about the fact that I've been with guys before. I'm not gay, I wouldn't even say I was bi. Sexuality is fluid. I refuse to label myself, and I know that can confuse or even irritate people.
Saying this is something I've been edging up on, hell, I've been a member of the SGLBTQ group for like two weeks now. Will I regret posting that to the internet? Time will tell. I'm tired of being coy when people ask about my life. My personal life is my buisness, and I say let others have their judgements, it's not my problem anymore.
I like this girl.
I like my job.
Life finally seems like it's coming together.
Love to you all.
New pics forthcoming. Seriously.
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heathavoid:
no my night was totally not worth the hangover I had... but, it was kinda fun..so I guess that's enough, n-est-ce pas??
armytodds:
I completely agree with your comment about sexuality. It is fluid. I've never been much for labels, certainly. But then...I'm from those funny theatre folk LOL...and that open minded and often wild and absurd atmosphere is commonplace for me...given the right circumstances and lower the inhibitions... God knows what people will do hehhee.