Things are not improving. She is now afraid I am going to break up with her because she's been in a "debbie downer" mood the last few days. I frankly think she is sabotaging herself. This is out of the blue, this break up stuff. I had not heard from her all day, when I text her, she said she's been avoiding talking to me because she's afraid I'll break up with her.
She's setting herself up to be proven right. I'm honestly starting to believe that she is not well enough to handle a relationship right now. And this is not how I want to do Christmas. And certainly not how I want to ring in 2013.
On a brighter note from me, if I don't get a chance to post... Merry Christmas to you and yours. Even though, I'm sure you've been naughty, I hope don't get coal (unless your profession is competition BBQing and that's what you want).
She's setting herself up to be proven right. I'm honestly starting to believe that she is not well enough to handle a relationship right now. And this is not how I want to do Christmas. And certainly not how I want to ring in 2013.
On a brighter note from me, if I don't get a chance to post... Merry Christmas to you and yours. Even though, I'm sure you've been naughty, I hope don't get coal (unless your profession is competition BBQing and that's what you want).
abadseed:
My gf is pulling some of the same stuff, man. Telling me that she doesn't want me to feel trapped or pressured into staying with her, that she doesn't think she is good enough for me...it's frustrating. I'm pretty sure you and I are the ones who know what we want, not our gfs. :/