So looks like i found another person who cannot be direct. Instead of face to face, she gave me a break-up email. LoL. Oddly enough I can't say its my first break-up email. But dont pity me or anything, it wasnt serious and i knew it wasnt. I was actually thinking about breaking up myself. It seemed to be going nowhere and she was heading for japan in october anyways. I at least would have told her such face to face. I guess i'm just different. Good morning Sg land. 
JK!