so your in love with someone...had many talks, many many talks about things that you have never and never will tell anyone else..you are that close to a person...or so you thought...that person calls you up and has an issue...not about, cheating,sex,breaking up, girly stuff, rape, murder mayham, distance, food, drugs, rock n roll, hair, dogs, mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, airplanes, cows or fucking chickens...but she cant tell you about it...she can however tell this guy the person met who they met about 6 months ago and is kinda close to but not as close to each other as "we" are...and sshe cant tell you because youll take it the wrong way..she can tell him because he is there to take care of her in person...she just need to think of how to say it because if she said it, it would not be how she ment it and i would take it the wrong way..............i'm thinking;
LIE,
Quit trying to make up a story and tell me,
how would this hurt me if its truly not about the above mentioned?,
more LIES,
was this a facade to put up to act like we were close?,
if not why cant you tell me?,
when you have told me things i dare not mention to anyone,
but not this?,
but you can to this guy,
this guy that your not as close to as you are me,
but its not an issue about us,
you didnt cheat,
it just could affect everyone around you,
including this guy,
but you can tell him,
and not me?
I ask this. What am i to think? what comes to mind starts with and L and ends with an IES. Somebody please tell me i'm wrong and stupid...BTW, i may get on here to tomarrow and tell you i'm stupid myself, because supposly she is gonna tell me tomarrow...why would you not tell the person you love about something that is relationship related and would affect everyone equally, but you would tell some guy you have known for 6 months? Specially when you have told that person you love things that 90% of the would would take to there grave....
^i guess thats a sign i need some beer and my pillow...sorry if you actually read through that...i'l prob come back tomarrow and go "holy shit, that makes no sense"..but for now its how i feel...........................
LIE,
Quit trying to make up a story and tell me,
how would this hurt me if its truly not about the above mentioned?,
more LIES,
was this a facade to put up to act like we were close?,
if not why cant you tell me?,
when you have told me things i dare not mention to anyone,
but not this?,
but you can to this guy,
this guy that your not as close to as you are me,
but its not an issue about us,
you didnt cheat,
it just could affect everyone around you,
including this guy,
but you can tell him,
and not me?
I ask this. What am i to think? what comes to mind starts with and L and ends with an IES. Somebody please tell me i'm wrong and stupid...BTW, i may get on here to tomarrow and tell you i'm stupid myself, because supposly she is gonna tell me tomarrow...why would you not tell the person you love about something that is relationship related and would affect everyone equally, but you would tell some guy you have known for 6 months? Specially when you have told that person you love things that 90% of the would would take to there grave....
^i guess thats a sign i need some beer and my pillow...sorry if you actually read through that...i'l prob come back tomarrow and go "holy shit, that makes no sense"..but for now its how i feel...........................
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sometimes really important things and virtually scary things are easier to tell someone that's not as big in importance in your life.
if she tells you something and is deep down afraid you will leave her for it, she can much easierly tell her friend.
(hi, btw, it's been a long time)
I've been close with people I've just met, and there are some things that I've told those people... and not my sig. other... There sometimes are just things that you tell your friends, some things you tell your family, and some things you tell your lover. No worries, though. It all comes out. No one's life is a big secret. Who knows if she's lying? Who knows the outcome? Either way, it'll all come out in due time, and it's *that* moment that you should sit back and think about what it is, as opposed to now, when you don't know much.
Just a thought.
BTW, thanks a lot.