What if I told you (lol) that finding the love of your life and/or true success will never be possible if you don't jump over your inner road blocks (fears/self-confidance, etc) first? Most people think that breaking their outer road blocks (lack of time/money, any exterior obstacles) first will get the job done. What they don't know is that you have control only over yourself and not over the others. Passing only over your exterior obstacles will simply make you focusing at wrong place. Instead, if you focus on your inner road blocks, you will eventually dissolve them and you'll then realise that your exterior ones are dissolved as well (like a domino effect).