So, bar-girl has a boyfriend. 
However, she did seem really happy that I asked her to dinner, gave me like 4 hugs in the minute I was talking to her, told me to keep coming back to see her, and that she really appreciated the offer, but that she had a boyfriend. Gave me her schedule for this coming week, as she'll be out of town some, and just all-in-all gave me all sorts of mixed signals. So I think I'm going to keep trying, but back down a little, to keep myself in her mind, and hopefully her and boyfriend will break up soon? Is that too much to ask?
However, she did seem really happy that I asked her to dinner, gave me like 4 hugs in the minute I was talking to her, told me to keep coming back to see her, and that she really appreciated the offer, but that she had a boyfriend. Gave me her schedule for this coming week, as she'll be out of town some, and just all-in-all gave me all sorts of mixed signals. So I think I'm going to keep trying, but back down a little, to keep myself in her mind, and hopefully her and boyfriend will break up soon? Is that too much to ask?
I'm pretty sure humans from Naboo are just like all other humans. I had an idea like what you mentioned, but I've been all over StarWars.com and they say nothing of the like. Amidala is just listed as 'human' and they say nothing about Naboo people aging slower. It still is a great saga though, that's for fucking sure.