Woah- I'm two days behind on the convo and feel way left out. I'll do my best to rectify...

First- I pray no harm befell you. You are a strong independent woman and my instincts tell me you know how to take care of yourself.

Second- Rat bastard, eh? You're lucky you've started writing like your old self again lately. Otherwise you wouldn't even be on my level, deserving of a response.

I don't think being a "fantasy fulfiller" is particularly endemic of the feminist movement in particular. It's more about personal empowerment and enrichment at the expense of the historical oppressor, but the benefits are localized and don't transfer well to the rest of your gender. I would group it with a black drug dealer selling crack to a white lawyer, or a native american tribe operating a casino (to a lesser extent).

Still from a capitalist standpoint I think it's wonderful. I have another friend, Blue, who is an IT consultant by day and a pro dom by night. More power to you...

I'll tell you what I tell everybody. Wiffle Bat Killing spree. Let your anger go.