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The baby is named Siyabonga. He is about 13 months old. The mother about 19. From what I understand, she is a drug addict and basically kicks it all day. She has reportedly left the baby with someone else, and is currently deemed unfit. Should she be found in SA she will be arrested.

I have no children. I had him for about 3 weeks. I cried every morning as I watched him sleep. I never get a chance to really look at babies. Seeing him there all alone sleeping peacefully is the most terrifying experience ever. I was enough to make me take action. I am currently in the process of obtaining SA residency because of relatives in the nation. I do not want Siya to go to an orphanage.

I hate his mother. She is a modern woman. She cares nothing for herself or the child. I can not wait to see my little Siya Siya Bonga again. We should be together in about 1 month. He is with a nice family for now. I am working hard to fix all of my previous issues and have him in my arms again. Check out Facebook for the photos in the next couple of days.

rainbowfour:
@tem there a few things in this world that surprise or shock me, and faith in humanity has all but dwindled to a small lone candle. Reading your blog and reading the emotion in it. Has ade my day. U truly are 1 in a billion. No need to hate his mum, she will, if she survives to live on, regret and have to live with what she has done very day. That is punishment enogh, and you don't want hatred in side you at such a joyous time. You are amazing and whilst I am a mere voice form no where, if more people were like you then maybe the work would not be so fecked. I wish u and Siya, the best and happiest life you can have. Truly truly admire you and your courage and bravery. 
Sep 4, 2014

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