I've written twice on the subject and here am I again annoyed enough to want to write again about it. I like putting words into a more or less permanent format. Whether it is paper or digital, I enjoy writing. It doesn't matter what I write about, but mostly I just share my own life and feeling and opinions. If I'm honest with myself, I share mostly my emotions. I mean, I write 5 paragraphs or more on Facebook and have many friends warn me I shouldn't. Well... I don't like leaving someone wonder where I stand or how I may feel about them. I have a hard time speaking my words, so I write them.
I try to respect the words I write. I avoid vulgarity unless it seems the right fit. Here, it never has aside from saying something like "Got-damn hot" or "Fucking amazing". Fuck in all its forms is a favorite because it can expresses so much more than most other words. Needless to say, I think, I don't care for comments like "beautiful pussy", "nice pussy", etc. Some SG may be fine with it, like it even, and that's OK. I approach every comment with the idea that none of you share yourselves as you do to hear someone compliment your nether regions and the photographers want to know how their art affects us as a whole, not that someone was glad they took plenty of clear photos of the model's vagina.
I also get that there aren't many words to use to refer to the vagina that are complimentary. Pussy seems to vulgar and I reserve it for when I'm being a bit vulgar with a happily participating partner. Vagina... ugh. I'm not a fan of that word either. Flower seems to safe and it makes me think of Monica from friends which makes me think of how long I've crushed on Courtney Cox. Womanhood is one I like, but that word should encompass more than a woman's sex, it should encompass her personhood, everything about her.
Truth is, it is rare that I would think anything other than it being beautiful. I find a woman's most delicate anatomy to have a beauty of its own no matter the shape. I won't be dishonest and say that every one I've ever seen has struck me as beautiful. I will say I've never been turned off by one. I find them to be amazing physiology and yes, beautiful. Still, I tend to compliment most everything else besides that because I always feel that focusing on that particular part of a woman's body reduces her to just that when there is so much more to behold. I like cute feet. I like longer hair, usually red. As I've said in other blogs, though, I don't limit my attractions or appreciations to those things. I find you all beautiful from head to toe.
This is why I try to leave a unique comment even though the English language only has so many words and some of them get repeated. Some posts are much more erotic than others and leave me with only commenting "Beautiful" when I want to say something like... "I'd love to burry my face between your legs until they tremble" or "I can almost imagine your glistening, sweat covered body entwined with mine". Yes, I even sometimes just think how much I would want to fuck until we have had our fill of each other. I don't because I feel that, even though SG has nude women and the burlesque shows, it's not just about the sexual appeal of women. It's about the beauty of them in all their glorious shapes and sizes. It's about beauty undefined by glamor and societal standards. This is why I come here... and why I find it insulting when a man can only come up with "beautiful pussy". I certainly appreciate its beauty, I'm just not focused on it so much. I tend to give it attention when it's appropriate and in art... I think there's a place for it, but it can be better expressed than "nice pussy". I find that juvenile and low brow.
So... to whom may read this, what are your thoughts? I sincerely want to know and the more input I have, the better I understand.
