yesterday was pretty great! We stopped by dereks grandmas memorial garden, it was kinda sad to see that all the wildflower seeds we'd spread about it, didnt take but it was recently tended, so that may be why. It looked nice though, and it will be breathtaking once spring comes again.
After that we went to dinner at claim jumper. If you don't have those near you, it's bomb ass grub, lemme tell ya. So we ate our fill then headed out to get some grocerys and stuff, and we stopped at the park where these old dudes were putting on a little concert. it was pretty funny, but they weren't bad. Then we stopped by cold stone fro some nummies(it's so bad, i swear, I should never go there again, but it's just soooo damned good!). Then we came home and chilled for a bit.
Today I am cat-proofing the house for our little visitors. I really hope they will be ok here.
I hope you all had a great weekend.
out of boredom I decided to go chatroom hopping on yahoo, maybe try and promote badassbetties in the fat chicks rooms, when 4 women in one of the rooms(before I'd even mentioned betties) decided that I was fair game for their ignorance and jealousy. Apparently, Im a "cam-ho, with no self esteem who is desperate for attention." simply because my profile showed cleavage. When i explained to them that I don't have a web-cam, and that I wasnt doing anything that could be considered desperate for attention, and that they should pay no attention to me, suddenly rhe name calling began. Women, much older, and more overweight than myself, began heckling me, trying desperately to piss me off, telling me I look 45, and like I was rode hard and put away wet, the entire time Im looking at each of their profiles, and laughing my ass off at their blurbs. "southern belle, looking for a good man who will treat me right and help take care of my kids."
These are the kind of women I try to avoid at all costs. That kind of catty ignorance is so pathetic and sad. There was really nothing I could say to them that would make them look any worse than they were making themselves look.
Finally one woman, apparently a regular in that room, who had been watching the entire thing, told them all what catty, ignorant, rude bitches they all were, and they were all shocked, seeing that she was a friend of theirs. This 52 year old woman, told me she looked at the site, and loved it, and what we were doing to help young women of size gain self esteem and confidence in their beauty. She said all the photos were artistic and tasteful, and that she bookmarked it to show her grandson(22) who is obsessed with stick thin women. I was rather shocked myself, I thought it was hilarious and awesome. I wish there were more people like her in the world.
Just had to share.
After that we went to dinner at claim jumper. If you don't have those near you, it's bomb ass grub, lemme tell ya. So we ate our fill then headed out to get some grocerys and stuff, and we stopped at the park where these old dudes were putting on a little concert. it was pretty funny, but they weren't bad. Then we stopped by cold stone fro some nummies(it's so bad, i swear, I should never go there again, but it's just soooo damned good!). Then we came home and chilled for a bit.
Today I am cat-proofing the house for our little visitors. I really hope they will be ok here.
I hope you all had a great weekend.
out of boredom I decided to go chatroom hopping on yahoo, maybe try and promote badassbetties in the fat chicks rooms, when 4 women in one of the rooms(before I'd even mentioned betties) decided that I was fair game for their ignorance and jealousy. Apparently, Im a "cam-ho, with no self esteem who is desperate for attention." simply because my profile showed cleavage. When i explained to them that I don't have a web-cam, and that I wasnt doing anything that could be considered desperate for attention, and that they should pay no attention to me, suddenly rhe name calling began. Women, much older, and more overweight than myself, began heckling me, trying desperately to piss me off, telling me I look 45, and like I was rode hard and put away wet, the entire time Im looking at each of their profiles, and laughing my ass off at their blurbs. "southern belle, looking for a good man who will treat me right and help take care of my kids."
These are the kind of women I try to avoid at all costs. That kind of catty ignorance is so pathetic and sad. There was really nothing I could say to them that would make them look any worse than they were making themselves look.
Finally one woman, apparently a regular in that room, who had been watching the entire thing, told them all what catty, ignorant, rude bitches they all were, and they were all shocked, seeing that she was a friend of theirs. This 52 year old woman, told me she looked at the site, and loved it, and what we were doing to help young women of size gain self esteem and confidence in their beauty. She said all the photos were artistic and tasteful, and that she bookmarked it to show her grandson(22) who is obsessed with stick thin women. I was rather shocked myself, I thought it was hilarious and awesome. I wish there were more people like her in the world.
Just had to share.
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I guess I can understand in a way. I know I was well received and maybe it's horrible but I did like that...but at the same time I never set out to hurt anyone. I have never said anything hurtful to anyone in that group at all. I have a lot of friends that have come out of that group and if I have the time I'm there commenting.
I know that there were members comments that feuled this...and that's what I get all the time.
Like...oh you better watch your crown Miss Faye...and shit like that. And now I'm just ready to snap because MEMBERS made this fight. Not the girls at all. While they may feel whatever it is that they feel towards me it's people saying shit like that. The girls in the group are nothing but supportive to each other.
I just hate that people treat me like I walk around like I'm little miss popularity or that I'm so stuck up and I think about no one else and stuff. In an email once someone said that they bet I made fun of the other girls behind their backs because that's what they would do if they were me. And I honestly couldn't believe it, I was just like AS IF I WOULD EVER DO THAT. I support those ladies with all my heart. I just feel like some people think I'm such a bad person for all of this. Cathedra felt that way too and now she's gone. She didn't leave for that reason but she did hate being treated like this and so do I.
I really don't mean to start anything with you or anyone else in the group especially the girls. I would feel better if you just removed the thread. I shouldn't have opened my mouth in the first place.