Well, I am finally updating. Sorry it has taken me so long. The wedding is falling into place nicely. Things are going rather smoothly, considering my family has been very involved. I found the perfect dress, it isn't black and burgundy like I'd imagined, it's actually ivory. Which is much more traditional, but it was far too perfect to resist, and at a mere $220.00, how could I not get it? We made arrangements to borrow a lighted arbor, and we will be creating a twinkling wonderland of lights and candles, for our sunset ceremony. It's going to be beautiful, and I am getting very excited about it!
I met a girl online a few weeks ago. She seemed cool, we shared similar interests as far as music and sports go, and she said she was a pothead. I figured that it would be cool for us to hang out since she only lived 15 minutes away. It was awkward the first time. She came over and promptly began using my computer(she didn't ask by the way), where she proceeded to go into chat rooms and engage in conversation with a bunch of horny dudes. This was weird to me, being that I'd never met her in person before. I was expecting to have some conversation, get to know each other. But that didn't happen. I ended up hanging out with her 2 more times before she decided to start inviting herself over, and putting me smack dab in the middle of all of her lifes drama. She found out that she is 7 weeks pregnant with her ex's child. She gets pissed because she wants him to be with her again, and he's already moved on. She kept saying that she just wanted him to be there for his child, but then she would burst into tears, crying about him having left her and her not really knowing why. I feel bad for her, but judging by her actions the other night, I am not at all suprised that he left her, in fact, I don't even want to be her friend anymore. She invites herself over, I'm in my PJs, not interested in company, I just wanted to relax and do some housework, but she didnt care about all that. Again, she jumps on the computer, and pretty soon she is crying about her ex again. She asks if I want to get out of the house, and go for a drive. I reluctantly agree, since she seems to be in a very fragile state. I asked her if we were going any place far, and she said no, just going to drive around. about 40 minutes later she tells me that she is going to go confront her ex, and she wants me to call him, and make sure he's at work. He is, and he asks her not to come to his work, and that he wants to talk to her over dinner the following day. It was too late for that, we were already there. She tells me to go inside, and get him for her(since she isn't allowed inside his place of business). I go in, and talk to him for about a minute before she comes barging in causing a huge scene. He takes her to his car to show her that there is nothing of hers inside. She begins screaming and yelling at him, calling him all kinds of names, calling his new girlfriend a whore, she punches him, and rips his shirt. I'm standing there, like, oh my fucking god this broad is nuts! He tells her to leave or he's calling the cops. On the way back to my house she has me call him and relay messages to him(which I'm loving btw
) He's telling me how sorry he is that I'm being put in the middle of all this, while she is barking orders at me, demanding that I tell him what an asshole she thinks he is, and that she is throwing every single thing of his away. We get to my house, where I'm hoping she will just drop me off and leave, but no, she comes in, gets on my computer, and makes me call him, to tell him off yet again, and pretty soon, I've had enough. He gives me his work number and asks me to call him when she's left. Finally she leaves, and I call him back, where he proceeds to tell me that this wasn't the first time she's come to his work and caused a scene. He tells me that she is bi-polar, and that she can't take any medications for it due to her poor health. He told me that she is prone to violent outbursts and irrational behavior, which is why he left in the first place. He told me that for my saftey, it might be best if I distance myself from her. So that is exactly what I am going to do. There is so much more to this story, but I doubt you're all that interested. I'm just a little freaked out by everything that has happened. Being that I barely know this girl and I'm being thrown in the middle of all this bullshit that I couldn't care less about. I'm a caring person, and if I can help someone out by being a sounding board, I'll do it, but enough is enough.
On a lighter note, I'll be working on a new PSW set today. It's going to kick ass.
How are you? Have you had to deal with any unnecessary drama lately? Do you like the smell of sulfer, or gasoline?
I met a girl online a few weeks ago. She seemed cool, we shared similar interests as far as music and sports go, and she said she was a pothead. I figured that it would be cool for us to hang out since she only lived 15 minutes away. It was awkward the first time. She came over and promptly began using my computer(she didn't ask by the way), where she proceeded to go into chat rooms and engage in conversation with a bunch of horny dudes. This was weird to me, being that I'd never met her in person before. I was expecting to have some conversation, get to know each other. But that didn't happen. I ended up hanging out with her 2 more times before she decided to start inviting herself over, and putting me smack dab in the middle of all of her lifes drama. She found out that she is 7 weeks pregnant with her ex's child. She gets pissed because she wants him to be with her again, and he's already moved on. She kept saying that she just wanted him to be there for his child, but then she would burst into tears, crying about him having left her and her not really knowing why. I feel bad for her, but judging by her actions the other night, I am not at all suprised that he left her, in fact, I don't even want to be her friend anymore. She invites herself over, I'm in my PJs, not interested in company, I just wanted to relax and do some housework, but she didnt care about all that. Again, she jumps on the computer, and pretty soon she is crying about her ex again. She asks if I want to get out of the house, and go for a drive. I reluctantly agree, since she seems to be in a very fragile state. I asked her if we were going any place far, and she said no, just going to drive around. about 40 minutes later she tells me that she is going to go confront her ex, and she wants me to call him, and make sure he's at work. He is, and he asks her not to come to his work, and that he wants to talk to her over dinner the following day. It was too late for that, we were already there. She tells me to go inside, and get him for her(since she isn't allowed inside his place of business). I go in, and talk to him for about a minute before she comes barging in causing a huge scene. He takes her to his car to show her that there is nothing of hers inside. She begins screaming and yelling at him, calling him all kinds of names, calling his new girlfriend a whore, she punches him, and rips his shirt. I'm standing there, like, oh my fucking god this broad is nuts! He tells her to leave or he's calling the cops. On the way back to my house she has me call him and relay messages to him(which I'm loving btw
On a lighter note, I'll be working on a new PSW set today. It's going to kick ass.
How are you? Have you had to deal with any unnecessary drama lately? Do you like the smell of sulfer, or gasoline?
derekthered:
Yeah, screw that broad!
klonopin_chugger:
sulfer....mmmmm sulfer
yea i have the same problem, trying to often to help someone else than getting sucked into the lunacy that is their world. feh.