My best friend called me last night, it was so great to hear his voice. I haven't been able to call him since Derek and I got engaged, I finally got to tell him how excited I was and about all the plans I was making, then he tells me he has big news too, On September 29th he is moving to SPAIN. My heart sank, I only have 3 friends, him ,my best girlfriend, and Derek(I guess 4 if you count my dog).
My best friend, Roy, moved to hollywood to become an actor, this was fine by me, I supported the hell out of him. The a few months ago he meets this guy, Apparently this guy is the best. I have yet to meet him. Roy and the guy are together for about 3 weeks when the guy moves back to Brazil where he is from originally. He and roy stay in contact and eventually roy starts talking about moving to Brazil. I told him that maybe he should go for a visit and see how he likes it, that never happened because the guy said he was going to move back to LA. So yay everyone is happy no moving wooohooo. The guy never came back to LA, he moved to Spain instead. So now roy, who is impetuous as fuck, desides he needs to move to Spain to be with him. I don't know what to say to him that will convey my feelings without pissing him off. I know that part of me not wanting him to go is because I dont want him to leave me, but I know how he is, this is the same dude that 3 months after he came out to everyone he knows that he is gay, joined the NAVY, then 6 months later got out of the navy because it was hindering his lifestyle. I just dont want him to move to another country, then have problems with his boy and not be able to get back. I dont know, I'm just depressed I guess, I want him to be happy, and it sucks that he's leaving to be happy, but I guess it's what needs to happen.
My best friend, Roy, moved to hollywood to become an actor, this was fine by me, I supported the hell out of him. The a few months ago he meets this guy, Apparently this guy is the best. I have yet to meet him. Roy and the guy are together for about 3 weeks when the guy moves back to Brazil where he is from originally. He and roy stay in contact and eventually roy starts talking about moving to Brazil. I told him that maybe he should go for a visit and see how he likes it, that never happened because the guy said he was going to move back to LA. So yay everyone is happy no moving wooohooo. The guy never came back to LA, he moved to Spain instead. So now roy, who is impetuous as fuck, desides he needs to move to Spain to be with him. I don't know what to say to him that will convey my feelings without pissing him off. I know that part of me not wanting him to go is because I dont want him to leave me, but I know how he is, this is the same dude that 3 months after he came out to everyone he knows that he is gay, joined the NAVY, then 6 months later got out of the navy because it was hindering his lifestyle. I just dont want him to move to another country, then have problems with his boy and not be able to get back. I dont know, I'm just depressed I guess, I want him to be happy, and it sucks that he's leaving to be happy, but I guess it's what needs to happen.