Warning: Rant ahead.
I hate adults who pay to be on an adult website, who then turn around and act like children the moment something doesnt go their way, or they are asked to compromise. Some of you reading this may not be aware of any of the recent bullshit that went on in PSW, but I'm sure a lot of you are. And this is how I feel on the subject.
I hate adults who pay to be on an adult website, who then turn around and act like children the moment something doesnt go their way, or they are asked to compromise. Some of you reading this may not be aware of any of the recent bullshit that went on in PSW, but I'm sure a lot of you are. And this is how I feel on the subject.
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Pictures of Dicks do not belong in PSW. I am not the only person who feels this way. There are a shitload of other girls in the group who were uncomfortable with it's very existance and asked that I remove it alltogether. BUT Since it seemed a lot of other people were really enjoying the thing, i decided to ask for a compromise and instead of polite and respectufl adults voicing their opinion, it turned into junior high again. Why is it that people have to take a personal offense to things which could possibly make the group more enjoyable for everyone? In my opinion a "let's see your cock" thread, doesn't belong in PSW, that is what SB, BCB, Cockaholics....etc. etc. are for. If you want some dick, there's no shortage. But PSW is a place to celebrate plus sized women. If you'd like to see the dicks of those who come to see the group or who concider themselves our "admirers", send them an IM and have your merry way with it in private.
Perhaps asking that they spoiler the images of their cocks was too much. Maybe I'm being a bit overbearing. And of course, to be completely fair to the boys, we women should censor every hint of vag we show in our pics. Of course, because PSW is fair as fair can be, men are treated exactly the same as any of the women there. Dudes, It has NEVER been that way, ever. And those of you who think that I am suddenly being unfair to the boys, obviously haven't been around that long. There was a time when a thread like that would be deleted immediately, and we didn't call for a vote on every little thing because someones pantys got in a bunch. Maybe we should have voted on whether or not to start a cock thread before everyone started whipping it out? I just can't believe the uproar the spoiler request caused. Men who are claiming to be so respectful of women, and the women of PSW, getting all kinds of whiney because they were asked to spoiler their cock pics so that even one person, might not be subjected to them if they didn't want to be(or maybe weren't expecting to be, for whatever reason....). Men turning into little boys because someone asked them to give others the OPTION of seeing their dick.
I love dick. I'm a member of cock-a-holics, and when I want to see some dick, that's where I go. When I want to see hot naked fat chicks. i go to PSW. Did it not occur to some people that maybe there are quite a few lesbians with no interest in peen whatsoever who are mebers of PSW? Yeah, yeah..."it's clearly marked, they don't have to look if they don't wanna, if I were offended I would just avoid the thread." PSW simply isn't the forum in which cocks should be posted. But despite my feelings, I compromised. Because yeah, I like some dick, and sure there were some nice dicks posted, but I really don't wanna see some of those penii. I would much rather have the option of viewing them. Rather than having them shoved in my face, jizz included. i would think that most of the women in the group would feel the same.
I got emails of warning from men, saying that if I ask them to censor themselves, they're leaving. Well then, buh-bye. Do you people not realise what site you're on? And what it's foundation stands for? The celebration of beautiful and unique Women, who go against the grain, who aren't traditional models. Men are not the focus, though they have been given their specific areas of the site to do their thang, in front of an audience created out of people who want to see them do their thang. PSW was created for fat girls to get together and show off how sexy and sexual they can be, and talk about their personal struggles in a comfortable environment, surrounded by those who share similar issues. I don't remember when the last topic on anything other than posting a picture of something or someone was started. Everything just seems so superficial recently.
I know not everyone likes me, and that comes with the job. People get upset when they don't get their way, but I do my best to be fair, and to try to come up with solutions that will keep everyone happy. I compromise a lot of my personal feelings because I know that a lot of the other members wouldnt really agree, and I don't want to be some kind of dictator. I've been accused of being a Nazi for upholding the photoset rules, But I think
MonGoofy was right, we need a basic set of general group guidelines to help keep things in order. Some kind of list that everyone agrees upon so we know exactly what is and isn't appropriate for our specific forum. Hopefully it doesn't get ugly. I just wish I had more time for this right now.
This is not a formal announcement, but I have been thinking of giving the reigns up to someone new. My recent workload, as well as other personal issues have left me with little time for SG and PSW. I love the group, and I want to do what is best for it's members by appointing a group owner who has the time and patience to moderate. I will still be around, but only to enjoy the friends I've made and the other pretty girls.
xo
Perhaps asking that they spoiler the images of their cocks was too much. Maybe I'm being a bit overbearing. And of course, to be completely fair to the boys, we women should censor every hint of vag we show in our pics. Of course, because PSW is fair as fair can be, men are treated exactly the same as any of the women there. Dudes, It has NEVER been that way, ever. And those of you who think that I am suddenly being unfair to the boys, obviously haven't been around that long. There was a time when a thread like that would be deleted immediately, and we didn't call for a vote on every little thing because someones pantys got in a bunch. Maybe we should have voted on whether or not to start a cock thread before everyone started whipping it out? I just can't believe the uproar the spoiler request caused. Men who are claiming to be so respectful of women, and the women of PSW, getting all kinds of whiney because they were asked to spoiler their cock pics so that even one person, might not be subjected to them if they didn't want to be(or maybe weren't expecting to be, for whatever reason....). Men turning into little boys because someone asked them to give others the OPTION of seeing their dick.
I love dick. I'm a member of cock-a-holics, and when I want to see some dick, that's where I go. When I want to see hot naked fat chicks. i go to PSW. Did it not occur to some people that maybe there are quite a few lesbians with no interest in peen whatsoever who are mebers of PSW? Yeah, yeah..."it's clearly marked, they don't have to look if they don't wanna, if I were offended I would just avoid the thread." PSW simply isn't the forum in which cocks should be posted. But despite my feelings, I compromised. Because yeah, I like some dick, and sure there were some nice dicks posted, but I really don't wanna see some of those penii. I would much rather have the option of viewing them. Rather than having them shoved in my face, jizz included. i would think that most of the women in the group would feel the same.
I got emails of warning from men, saying that if I ask them to censor themselves, they're leaving. Well then, buh-bye. Do you people not realise what site you're on? And what it's foundation stands for? The celebration of beautiful and unique Women, who go against the grain, who aren't traditional models. Men are not the focus, though they have been given their specific areas of the site to do their thang, in front of an audience created out of people who want to see them do their thang. PSW was created for fat girls to get together and show off how sexy and sexual they can be, and talk about their personal struggles in a comfortable environment, surrounded by those who share similar issues. I don't remember when the last topic on anything other than posting a picture of something or someone was started. Everything just seems so superficial recently.
I know not everyone likes me, and that comes with the job. People get upset when they don't get their way, but I do my best to be fair, and to try to come up with solutions that will keep everyone happy. I compromise a lot of my personal feelings because I know that a lot of the other members wouldnt really agree, and I don't want to be some kind of dictator. I've been accused of being a Nazi for upholding the photoset rules, But I think
MonGoofy was right, we need a basic set of general group guidelines to help keep things in order. Some kind of list that everyone agrees upon so we know exactly what is and isn't appropriate for our specific forum. Hopefully it doesn't get ugly. I just wish I had more time for this right now.
This is not a formal announcement, but I have been thinking of giving the reigns up to someone new. My recent workload, as well as other personal issues have left me with little time for SG and PSW. I love the group, and I want to do what is best for it's members by appointing a group owner who has the time and patience to moderate. I will still be around, but only to enjoy the friends I've made and the other pretty girls.
xo
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gar don't leave as the leader I freakin love you! This place wouldn't be the same if you weren't the leader of the pack!