what is a reasonable amount of time for a reasonable man to date a kickass chick like me before he is ready to marry her? I mean, honestly, this is an awesome relationship and I am 100% about making a great marriage happen. He's not ready yet. We were discussing it and he (kiddingly) said, " Let's go...we could be in Vegas in 3 hours." So I told him seriously that I don't want to do it unless he knows that he wants me and truly believes in what we have and our ability to make it work for a lifetime.
It will be 4 years in August. I've been ready for a year. What is gonna seal the deal for him on this shit? I told him it's his thing to work out, he knows I'm not going anwhere.
I know I can be patient. It's like anything in life that's worth waiting for but the whole thing is crystal clear for me and I can't see through his eyes on this.
That said, I am so elated to have him in my life. He brings me a joy that no one else can. He understands and accepts me in a way that no one else does. We have a superb sex life and I find him incredibly sexy. So I really haven't anything to whine about do I?
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anger_frog:
4 years? Yeah, I think marriage would definitely be an option here, especially if everything is working out so smoothly. Living together first wouldn't be a bad idea though; living under the same roof can be a different experience for people, and you should know how well that's going to go before the two of you decide to get hitched. It's not necessary, of course, but it never hurts to know for certain.
darkjuan:
what I meant was.... like on the weekend. sheesh! 