Well this was an interesting night. Went out partying with friends for the first time in a while. Two of my good friends announced their engagement. The guy ask me too be the best man. The girl announced to me privately that she plans "to be with me" at least once before they actually get married.
Now we've been through this scenario before a few times and I have politely, if not reluctantly, turned her down on each occassion (opportunity?). Now it's a lot more serious and I am really fucked up about this situation. This is only compounded by the fact that she set me up with one of her friends a week ago and got pissed off at her friend when her friend and I hit it off.
Becoming a recluse sounds real good right now.
Now we've been through this scenario before a few times and I have politely, if not reluctantly, turned her down on each occassion (opportunity?). Now it's a lot more serious and I am really fucked up about this situation. This is only compounded by the fact that she set me up with one of her friends a week ago and got pissed off at her friend when her friend and I hit it off.
Becoming a recluse sounds real good right now.
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The girl worries me. Of course she's going to be psycho and jealous that you are hitting it off with her friend because secretly (or maybe it's not so secretly it seems) she has it for you and wants you for herself. Girls can be weird like this about certain guys in their lives.
My advice to you is....(i) be a good friend to both and do not ever let it happen, (ii) do not ever let yourself be in a situation with her alone ever (especially if late nights and alcohol is involved), and (iii) date outside of the circle of this group of friends. She'll still hate the girl but at least the girl won't be her friend.
Tell her thanks but no thanks next time she offers and let her know this makes you feel very uncomfortable, you are sure that fiance' wouldn't like it either, and that you would appreciate it if she would respect everyone that is involved and please not go there anymore. She may be bitter and cold to you after this but oh well.....at least she'll leave you alone hopefully and stop doing this.