I feel like I want to scream and cry at the same time and yet I can do neither. A friend of mine just told me that he tested HIV positive. God I told him, I fucking told him to be careful! I literally remember sitting next to him in the car about 8 months ago as he was decribing his latest fling and I said, "hun I love you, you know that I do. So go ahead have your fun, fuck every guy that tickles your fancy, but don't be stupid, do it safely because I swear to God if you get AIDS I will fucking KILL you!!!!!" I was sitting there just looking at him, half wanting to strangle him and half wanting to throw my arms around him and cry. He has no idea what he is in for, he just doesn't get how he is changed forever. AHhhhhhhh!!!! 
demonesskage:
Luckily for him, HIV isn't AIDS, and HIV isn't necessarily a death sentence. The best thing you can do for him is to support him, and be there for him when reality sinks in, ya know? Because it will probably be ugly when it does. Best of luck to you, and to your friend.
toez:
I'm so sorry hun. I have three cousins who tested HIV positive years ago, not one of them has full blown AIDS. We have lost two of them, but both deaths were caused by car accidents. He can still live a very long, happy, fullfilling life!