men are stupid. don't even try to deny it. you all are. and no, you don't grow out of it. don't take it the wrong way, i love men/boys/whatever, especially my bf, but you can all be RETARDED when it comes to the minds of females. i just don't understand how anyone could be so utterly oblivious. it doesnt even make sense. unless they're retarded. so that is the conclusion i have come to. i don't love you any less, i just have to learn to live with the fact that everything even remotely important to me as a female must be spelled out like i'm talking to a 2 year old or i'll never get my point across. sometimes i question why i don't just stick to women. we may be insane and flat out impossible to be around for about a week every month, but at least other females never misunderstood the importance of things like anniversaries or stating the fact that I WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY FUCKING LIFE WITH YOU! i mean seriously, who just ignores something like that? you want to know who? A GUY. only a guy would be SO GODDAMN OBLIVIOUS as to just how important of a statement that is. makes me feel so loved.
oh, and btw, DO NOT take this as an excuse to hit on me. i will reject you even more than any regular day bc now i am irritated. (see that was me spelling it out to your oblivious brains. I DO NOT WANT YOU.) i still love my bf to death, i would just like to hear his thoughts on the fact that i would like our relationship to be a little more serious than some high school fling. or at least for him to acknowledge that i made the statement at all!!! is that too much to ask?
oh, and btw, DO NOT take this as an excuse to hit on me. i will reject you even more than any regular day bc now i am irritated. (see that was me spelling it out to your oblivious brains. I DO NOT WANT YOU.) i still love my bf to death, i would just like to hear his thoughts on the fact that i would like our relationship to be a little more serious than some high school fling. or at least for him to acknowledge that i made the statement at all!!! is that too much to ask?
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guys will never get the full understanding of the important meaning of events 100%...
its sorta has to be beatin into them over and over... or after a while if you get lucky they start to let the big bad, "i'm a tuff guy) attitude go out the windo and start opening up to there emotional side.
hell i took just about 2 almost 3 years to get James to finally start to really open up and say what he means and mean what he says....
and ya know allot of that has to do with him growing up... age really does matter when it comes to expressing emotions.
he was 20 when we first started going out and he had allot of growing up to do since then. a life long union was not what he was thinking about back then...
but time ages people and four years later allot has changed... keep that in mind.
anyway.... on a lighter note... whats new....?
how long till you go back to your mom's place.
if ya need any help let me know... talk ta ya later