Thursday Jun 09, 2011

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So I was talking to a friend about how many people I've been with sexually, & I started thinking about what if I had "saved myself" for someone. Would I be as good at sex as I am now, or know the things I've learned from the different partners I had? I'm perfectly fine with how many people I've been with & any girl I talk to that way has never brought it up as a problem.

So I got curious & I was wondering, how many sexual partners is too many in your book?


This weekend I'll be in SF, tonight I'm driving up there to see Feed Me at Ruby Skye & tomorrow Tenderlions at the DNA Lounge for Blow Up's sixth anniversary, will be an amazing night! I got Tenderlions album In 3d & am loving it to death. Hope everyone as a great weekend. love
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thescarykid:
Haha. Well thanks, man. Yeah, I got laid on my 20th birthday. See, for 2 years starting at 17 I was in a long distances relationship. And being the hopeless romantic I am, I was saving it for her. We'll, she up and left. I pined for her for a year and said fuck it, I'm getting laid for my birthday, so I slept with a friend. The sex wasn't good, shit, I didn't even come. But it wasn't a bad experience, it wasn't great either. It was just as it is; sex.

I've slept with 10 girls this past 7 years. Because I've always had the whole "I only sleep with folks I'm in a relationship with". But you know, sometimes I get really drunk and one thing leads to another haha. Something I'm working on not doing anymore. But that's just me and I don't judge anyone that does different. Sex for me is a want, not a need. Going without it due to my own personal standards doesn't bug me. And due to these standards I have shot down a lot of women which seems to confuse them.

I can vouch that I think the best sex is with someone you trust and/or love. Especially if they love sex. Try everything in the book, sometimes you get good feed back, sometimes you don't. Lovers are made not born. Then there's the few that god must've built for sex haha. First time goes right out the box.

And love SF. I was up there about two weeks ago for a guitar wolf show at bottom of the hill. Have fun, man.
beezle:
I'm a christian and I don't think 2 is to many *rolls eyes* =/

but besides that seriously it doesn't matter.
I do think it's important to be able to show a little resistance and not bone anything that walks, but other than that be safe and have fun. =) I've had sex with 8 people in the last 5 years and I'm okay with that number

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