taban

So I have always had this issue with the fact that people who have problems when they are dating blame the wrong person.
If a guy and a girl are together; and the guy starts talking to another girl.. either as a friend or looking for something more; why is it that the original girl gets mad at the new girl?

Why isn't she mad at the guy?

Seriously, the "new girl" may just be an inocent bystander, a friend, maybe she does see the guy as something more but has been told that she is the only one, or that the guy is leaving the other girl Or maybe.. once again.. this is an innocent friend who has no alterior motives.

Honestly.. if you have a problem with who your boyfriend talks to (or guys who your girl talks to) THEN FUCKING TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT!! It's called being an adult in a mature relationship. Especially if you are thinking about or perhaps already married to the person.

ALSO

I refuse to be told what to do by some psycho girl w/ low self esteem who thinks her guy is cheating on her.
Confront him cause basiclly I dont give a damn about you or your feelings; the guy is my friend, not you. And unless he says "hey I don't want to talk to you anymore" I am gonna stay friends with him. If you have a problem; take it up with him, cause frankly my dear, I don't give a damn.

Wuts up with you. Let me know how thangs is goin.
Mo

>Hey there hun! Congrats on kickin ass in Iran. Are you back yet? I
>figure you aren't because you would've called or texted instead of emailing
>me (which you never do.. is everything ok?) I miss ya hun!!Things are ok;
>I am have a real hard time getting back into things on the mat. My knee
>hurts a lot and my timing is all sorts of messed up. I'm kinda struggling
>tryin to figure out if I need a new style or what. But I am cleared to
>practice, so I'm excited to be wrestling, it just hurts. I'm hoping to
>wrestle in the Schultz but still am not sure yet. If I do it'll be up at
>67 kilos. I figure I need to focus more on wrestling and less on cutting
>weight; especially since running more then a 1/2 mile is tough for me right
>now.I got tattooed over the weekend; nothing huge. I got my wrists
>done;they are both in Latin; one says I attack, the other says I control..
>crucio and imperio. I think they look good; I love em; and they didn't
>hurt at all. (Surprisingly.. I thought it was gonna hurt really bad).Other
>then that things are just sort of truckin along; I started school again and
>that's about it.I miss you hun; write me back let me know what is up with
>you.xoxo Tab

Hey,
Keep your head up. When I get back, we will discuss tactics and trying to
find a way to build up your mental game. Im in russia rite now. I wrestle
in 2 days. I miss you 2. U are my gal!!! When I get back, we'll sit down
and talk about competin at schultz. Maybe you aint ready 4 it.
Mo

Hey,
I figure you won't get this till you are done wrestling.
Just wanted to apologize i my emails cause trouble with you and Kelly. Didn't think it was a big deal seeing as you did email me first, but in any case you know I wouldn't want trouble for ya. You're my boy and you have helped me through more stuff then almost anyone. I hope I haven't made you feel uncomfortable when we talk or I guess when I emailed you. You know you you're my friend and I am not trying to get with you right? LIke I said, you have been a good friend to me and I would even say I owe you; except I did help you with all that Western Civ work; so I would say we are even. HAHA. By the way, Cormier never got ahold of me about needing help; is he not finishing up his degree now?

Practice tonight was about as crappy as I could have imagined. Honestly, unless there is a miracle I don't know how I will wrestle in the Schultz. I swear if I lose both my matches and Izzy harps on me at practice the next day; it could very well break me. I don't feel like I have any pop off my feet or when I need to bouce off my knee. It's very frustrating. GRRRR!!! It seems like I can't even put extra mat time in; cause it makes my knee so sore. I have talked to Patrick about changing my weight room stuff to try and build my leg back up. He and I need to really sit down and go over it. Especially since I will be wrestling BIGger girls this season. I think I need to work on more snatch type stuff and much doubles; thankfully I have someone to ask on all that stuff... Kristie... HA! j/k you know I meant you.

Anyway, if you read this before you wrestle good luck
If you read it after you wrestle congrats (since I know you had to have done well; cause that's what you do)
Sorry again about all the drama
Hit me up if you get a chance; if not I'll see you whe you get back to the OTC
Tab

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