sylvain

i'm glad that things are going well with your wife! and that it's so important to both of you to keep a home for your daughter. i wish my husband felt the same.

regarding the friends only thread....

he *says* he hopes we can work it out at some point. i'm afraid to believe him. i'm also afraid not to believe him. sometimes i truly believe that "we" are inevitable. other times, i just don't know. i have lived the realities of a divorced family, and even in the best of circumstances it sucks.

at times i see this part of our relationship as being necessary to come back together in a different way. at other times (most times) i see him as a selfish asshat who wants to go play single boy, and am pissed off to see our family time passing us by because of it.

and i never ever ever ever wanted to be a single parent, or have a single parent home for my children. that this is my reality now is enough to piss me off on a daily basis.