sylphio

So I got this e-mail invite to some local BDSM group, it was to a meet and greet type thing so there was a table with a bunch of people...

I went more out of curiosity and I knew what to look for,a table w/ roses on it, but I didn't recognize anyone at the table, more to the point everyone sitting at the table looked twice my age and three times my girth...

so I turned around and walked away...I'm just not into older, older women and I want to be able to lift a girl and carry her in some fashion...none of these people fit that, and I'm not into BDSM that much, more curious than anything, so maybe I'll get a girlfriend one day and we'll try stuff, but I don't think I'm about to join a group on it, even if there were people my age there I'ld be tentative of getting involved with any of them to begin with...kinda like the people I met at the club...

I've had a scare before and glad that I don't have anything, but condoms break, birth control can fail, and shit does happen...I'm just too cautious to be promiscous, experience (mine and others) have taught me well...