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so i know i kinda complained about stuff on here. but im really starting to feel a sense of community here.

for all the friends ive made on here: thanks for keeping me company and thanks for being kindred spirits that help me not feel so alone in this suffocating place i live.

my day has been really good thanks to chatting with a super...
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jeffx20:
Counting Crows!
swimforbrighter:
rock
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im really excited a guy ive known since birth is moving back to our hometown which is where i live! hes moving back here from tanzania! theres a lot going on in my life that im excited about... and if i told you guys all of it youd be like 'this girl is so weird!'

and by the way im a self proclaimed weirdo. not...
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swimforbrighter:
he just got out of the peace corps!
majinharper:
Nothing wrong with a little weirdness. It keeps life interesting surreal

Thanks for the add!
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so not many of you know too much about me but im super fun loving and you prob think i go to the gym a lot haha. in nov 09 i was in a horrific car accident that killed a lady and i had like 5 injuries that wouldve killed most and we really dont know how im still here and i dont know why....
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swimforbrighter:
thanks smile <3
blackheartdown:
Regardless of the struggle you have had to deal with, you have the right to be down right pissed if anyone is pressuring you about something you are uncomfortable with here. The purpose of this site, besides entertainment in various forms, is finding kindred spirits, support, and community if you so choose.

Your accident and recovery is a terrible thing to have to go through. I'm helping someone who is recovering from stroke currently, it's so difficult. It's great to hear that you are working hard to live your life to it's best and push yourself. smile
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my st patricks day was good but i barely got any sleep so im probably gonna go to bed soon. but tomorrow im going swimming a long while at my escape! aka the gym!

my week last week started out good and ended shitty. my goal for this week is to have the entire week be balanced awesomeness
itsy:
Balanced awesomeness so far?

Dorky HOT chics unite!
swimforbrighter:
yea lol. i said that cause almost all my days are amazing or feel like one ofd the worst days of my life! but things have been good! how about u?
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so the thing with the guy was shortlived to say the least..

im not a SG well not in the sense that im gonna take beautiful nude artsy pictures for anyone. or any nudes for that matter lol. are all guys on SG shallow? :'(

btw despite a major asshole sadly giving me the creeps , MY ST PATRICKS DAY WAS AWESOME. i went out...
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willy81:
Yes we are all very shallow here! You mean you didn't get the memo about how every guy on SG is shallow!?! tongue
blackheartdown:
I would hope that no guy on here would have an expectation that any female member would do that as a matter of course. But the web is full of creeps (the bad kind). Don't give up, there are plenty of nice members on SG, you just need to be a little careful and watch out for predators.
Glad you had a good St. Pats. smile
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IM REALLY EXCITED! i met the most amazing guy. hes eerything i want and im excited to see whats next!

im already falling and it puts a gooey happy warm fuzzy over everything right now lol. im a pretty big nerd.

other than that im spending a large chunk of my time at the gym which also makes my days brighter. it feels good to...
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blackheartdown:
Happy to hear your success on the guy front!
BTW you're tiring me out with all this gym talk, I'm gonna lie down and take a positive energy infused nap. smile
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i'm not really all that great at describing myself so ill just skip to how things are these days. all of my days are either completely awful or completely amazing haha i dont know how to get one balanced in between extremes! i believe this is partly from traumatic brain injuries i sustained in a car accident in nov 09. another part because of bipolar...
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swimforbrighter:
nothing wrong with it!
pyromethious:
The problem is that everybody's stuck in old patterns of how life should be. Hell, I got burnt by most my non-immediate family when a GF moved in while we were dating because of the whole "but what if you have kids and aren't married" crap.

Then there's the stuff I gotta deal with when it comes to the guy friends when I have a female friend over. They don't seem to understand that it's entirely possible to be adults and still play like kids and whatnot without it resorting to sex or something. Hell, my best dates were ones that nothing ever happened and we didn't care. The older you get, though, the harder it is to get a new friend that doesn't think you're coming onto them or is comfortable with the whole innocent cuddle thing because you feel like it.