my husband and i are getting a divorce. i made the decision but we both new it was time. it's the best thing for the both of us but its still breaking my heart. i'm really going to miss him. he is moving back to the valley and i am moving to MA. my move is going to take a bit more time to swing than his. i'm not sure how long but i plan on having it all done within the next 6 months. he is my best friend and that is all he ever should have been. we want completely different things out of life. i need to see the world and he needs to be near his family. there are a million things. i once thought that our differences would make us stronger, but they only tore us apart. i'm feeling really sad. after the move i dont know if i will ever see him again since i have no reason to ever return to california. we are staying in touch but i will so miss hugging him, holding his hand. we've been together for 9 years. thats a third of myt life. even though we werent happy together, i dont know how to live without him. i know he will not be gone from my life but nothing will be the same.
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I hope it works out OK. My ex and I have an ocean between us, so I know how that feels. It works for us, sometimes.