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happy thanksgiving everybody, work has been busy this week, and will be busy until Christmas, I found out about a rumor recently at my old job. Someone has been saying I am pregnant and that is why I left, very very retarded.
wsoxfan:
The Hell with people who spread ridiculous rumors. They're not your friends.

I look forward to more participation on SG on your part once work slows down.
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wsoxfan:
I'd love to taste some of your pastry. I'd even cheat on my diet. Maybe early next year.
wsoxfan:
Wishing you and yours a Happy Thanksgiving.
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wsoxfan:
What a cute picture. Did you do that?

If you've been following my recent blogs, you've noticed that some significant changes are happening and are about to happen in my life. It's something i'd like to get your thoughts on and discuss some of my more intimate thoughts anf feelings about it when you have a chance. I respect your participation and knowledge of this lifestyle, as well as thinking of you as a good friend.

Is it okay to PM you some time?
wsoxfan:
Thank you. I'll send you something when I get my thoughts together.
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I am very happy with my new job. I have two bosses instead of like 8+ and there is technically one other person that can tell me what do to. I also really enjoy the work, it involves a lot of boxed lunches and small banquets. I have my first wedding with the company this weekend.

I am really enjoying my new job, and I...
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wsoxfan:
I'm glad you took the time to read what Kathy sent me. It might be the most beautiful and relevant thing i've ever been given.

Being happy at one's job is a blessing that many people don't have. I'm glad things turned out this way for you. Sometimes something good comes out of a tempoary setback.

While things will really kick into high gear when I take my trip to Canada to spend a month with Kathy and get to know whether we're compatible, I now also consider myself as having one person who can tell me what to do. Of course in a different context and setting than you.
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I already got a job. I start Monday with a small catering company.

Also going to be out of town this weekend. Going to my brother's wedding.
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wsoxfan:
Congrats on the job and to your brother and his soon to be wife. You've always struck me as a resourceful person who bounces back from adversity regardless of how serious it may be.

You're the type of person who makes her own luck. I applaud you.
wsoxfan:
I know it's bad form to ask someone to read one's blog. I'm doing it with you this time because I'm anxious to share what it says with you especially.

Good luck with the new job and belated congratulations to your brother.
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I have officially been terminated as of today... It sucks but maybe this is a blessing in disguise, I was getting tired of that place, this gives me the motivation to seek that new job I have been wanting. I will embrace it!
wsoxfan:
I'm sorry, yet it sounds like you're looking at the loss of your job in the best possible light. I admire that in you.

I'm sure you'll find an even better job very soon. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
skullgrid:
that sucks frown

hopefully it does indeed prove to be a blessing in disguise smile
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wsoxfan:
That looks so pretty. I'm sure they tasted delicious.
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Worried about my job. I got put on suspension for now, which means I can't work till I talk with the General Manager. If I get my job back I get a paid vacation, if not I get the boot. Wish me luck, with a jack-shit economy I'll need it.
wsoxfan:
I'm so sorry. You know i wish you all the luck in the world. I want things to work out for you very much. Please keep me in the loop.

i'm sorry sometimes that i joined FetLife. It can get frustrating and uncomfortable for me at times. Even though the person i mentioned to you is on there and encourages me to participate, i have to do what i think is best for myself. I'll give it anoher week or two and then decide about staying or leaving.

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I really want to get my new tattoo started, but there is no way I can afford it, with all the travel I have to do to get to these weddings. Oh well... I have to wait again....

The real reason for this post is related to thought. I normally do not ramble about my brain and the crazy things it comes up with, but...
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wsoxfan:
I commend you for being candid with people abut your lifestyle choices. I wish I were that way earlier in life. Now that i'm older, I talk about my sexual preferences a lot. Some people are shocked or disapproving, although they don't tell me to my face. But, you now, one has away of telling if someone disapproves.

My candor about my devotion to BDSM really started when my relationship with my Goddess seemed to take hold. I was so euphoric to be with someone like Her, especially at my age, that I wanted to shout it out to the world. That wasn't the most prudent thing to do, but I didn't care.

Stay true to yourself. Its advice I try to follow every day.
wsoxfan:
Are you on FetLife? I joined about 3 weeks ago. I've never been more sure of what I want. The BDSM lifestyle is something I want to live more than anything.

I have a mentor and guide toward realizing my destiny. She's someone who used to be on SG until a little over a week ago. We were friends for abut a year and a half. Now besides the other things I mentioned she's also my Protector.
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I love creating surprises for people!

A friend and a co-worker of mine had a b-day today. So we set things up so that she had to come in to work and while at pre-shift meeting we surprised her with an ice-cream pie, gifts, a change of clothes, and the fact that she indeed did not have to work on her birthday! We talked another...
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wsoxfan:
What a nice story. You're a good friend. Pleasant memories is like money in the bank. You can look back on it and smile as many times as you want.
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Is contemplating adopting a kitten...

Also remembering 9-11:
I was in Oceanography class, another teacher came running in telling my teacher to turn on the TV. We then went on lock down at school, so we sat in the classroom until the school let us go home. They locked down because our school was close to a Naval Base, they thought might be next victim....
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wsoxfan:
Of course if someone's an ass, taking that person off is a no-brainer. I'm pretty anal, so I tend to obssess on things that most people don't feel are that important.

When it comes to your activity on this site, I'm very happy that you and I communicate as often as we do. I'm honored that you think enough of me to be so mindful of my doings here.
wsoxfan:
I've been thinking of you. I'm very enthusiastic about my getting back into the BDSM lifestyle. This time in ways that I haven't had a chance to explore in the past. I'm getting help from an experienced Mistress with making sure that i'm totally focused on the things thata are important when it comes to submission and what it means to be a slave. I use that word instead of sub or bottom because I make a serious distinction in what they mean. The word I use to describe myself has a connotation to me of being totally dedicated to the lifestyle, which I know I am.

The next serious relationship I get into will be with someone who feels as strongly about BDSM as I do. I'm not willing to compromise anymore at this stage of my life. I understand how important the lifestyle is to me.

Anything new in your life?
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pavlovsdog:
I'm sorry.
pavlovsdog:
The gingerbread contest, that's always fun. Let me know.