Monday Oct 19, 2009

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i'm experiencing some hair add lately... now it's BLUE!

also, i'm really lost on how to deal with the whole b/f roommate situation.

today when i stopped by his place in between classes (for nakedness), one of his roommates was in the kitchen and, as i was about to open the door, he swooped over and locked it.

it's all just so childish. all of them claim to have very valid reasons for not wanting me in the house but none of them are able to explain them to me or talk to my boyfriend about it. so... none of them want peace and harmony in their home, they're just looking for drama.

i'm really trying, for my boyfriend's sake, to be mature about this, but how am i supposed to keep pretending this isn't tearing me up inside?

last week i almost broke up with him over it.

i'm still contemplating it.

i love him but, jesus, idk if he's worth it.

sometimes you give up the good things to find the great ones...
stick_da_vinci:
ok....so, after thinking about this after we talked last week and seeing what you wrote above YOU do not have to do anything. He needs to step up, tell them as long as he pays rent there, his girlfriend can come by and be in HIS room, as HIS guest as much as HE wants. You are not a pain to get along with, youre not the type to just mooch off their stuff, etc so it is not an unreasonable situation.

Basically, he needs to grow a pair and tell them how its gonna be or you, unfortunately, might have to remove yourself from the situation.

on a happier note, I'm looking forward to seeing the hair smile

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