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seriously, something is wrong with our society.

if someone who is in danger of renal failure, blindness, heart attack and death is considered attractive then there is literally no hope for us.

signals for feminine beauty are supposed to hint at a woman's fertility and ability to carry a child, not her extreme malnutrition.

two steps forward one step back.

bull shit.
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alatusphoto:
Agreed.
writeboy:
Thanks Sudz! So . . . did you buy the homeless headphones?

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rogueelephant:
woot, yea they are comfy smile
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there should be more big girls on SG

not that i'm particularly attracted to larger women, it just seems like they are under represented. as well as non-white women (who i do find attractive) they almost never seem to cross the front page.

don't get me wrong, i'm, not faulting SG. i don't see too many non-white and/or bigger girls who are hopefuls either.

just...
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andybeau:
You got your ear pierced?! Did I guess right? Do I get a cookie?biggrin
penfold95462:
Yeah they're definitely out there. I think the SG admins have become more strict over the years, or it might simply be that there are far more girls applying now than in the past so more competition. You see accepted SG sets from a few years ago, which aren't even close to the quality levels of some failed hopeful sets.
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I'm supposed to be working on a ten page paper right now that is due in about 42 hours and that i have not yet written a single word of...

but i am a masterful procrastinator.

so, instead i am poking around the internet contemplating how to spend my next paycheck.

my nipples are fully healed and i'm thinking of possibly getting another piercing. i've...
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alatusphoto:
You should spend it on coming out here and doing a shoot.
shield_agent81:
I would go with the tattoo smile
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So, my boyfriend and I have talked about last Sunday and we've worked things out.

My boyfriend isn't as sexually aggressive as I am and my approach apparently made him feel dirty in a bad way.

I kinda thought that changing things up might be hot and might lead to more sex because I assumed that maybe the lack of sex was boredom.

But he...
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paradym:
You probably know all of this, but it's good and helpful to be reminded sometimes, at least I find it is.

Sexual chemistry is hard to find. On one hand, I had friends in a great relationship, only he was porn addicted and could not climax with her, not even for all the outfits she made and bought, scenarios she set up, and passion she had. My girlfriend tells me that we're the most active among couples she knows (daily). A couple others have good drive (3-5/wk), but then some others see it more as a chore, an unnecessary part of life. It's not just religion that makes people wary of sex; some just don't want it as much. That, and as kids taught to hide their sexuality, we are used to trying to climax for the sake of speed, and not enjoying the whole process, taking time, and experimenting.

It's something worth talking about, because you'll be able to find out what he does really want if you push it enough, or you'll find out that he is more important than passion, and your drive will be left to drift off. I can actually understand him feeling dirty in a bad way for overt sexuality if he's not used to it. If he's used to you as his girlfriend and wanting him as your boyfriend, it's a bit alienating to change into a girl who looks and acts nothing like the girl he wants. Maybe try transitioning with some talk but still looking like yourself, or put on simpler outfits while still behaving like yourself, so that he can ground the moment as still being with you, while allowing his mind to wander. As active as I can be, I can still find it a bit alienating to see someone who is nothing like my partner trying to turn me on in the way that I would only want my partner to.

You're not too horny for your own good, you just need to find the right communication to figure out what works for each of you in the bedroom, as well as lifestyle-wise. I know I hate letting my girl do all the work; I can't even think of having sex until she's begging for it or has climaxed, and I won't climax until she's had at least a couple. If you can figure out the right mix, maybe he won't be so tired, and maybe he'll find he wants to make more time for the both of you, maybe even waking up early for you, since a woman's clock peaks in the morning, unlike a man's peaking late at night.

Of course, what do I know, I'm just a random internet person, shucks whatever
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i must be the only girl in a committed relationship not getting any.

last night i tried coming on to him, put on a cute little outfit, put on a little show for him, the whole 9. he looked repulsed by me and turned me down, harshly. i've never felt so humiliated in my life.

what am i supposed to do?

i love him but...
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stick_da_vinci:
dear....there is not a god damn thing wrong with you other than they guy youre with apparently.

as always, need to chat, gimmie a call.
micajah:
You should talk to him about this. There is always the possibility that the situation was misinterpreted by both parties.

After you've had a discussion, and if things turn out for the better........Try sensually grabbing his junk while slipping him some kisses. Or try being aggressive with him. Both always work for me.

Also.....when you have sex, who puts in the most work? In my opinion it should be 50/50. Many of my friends, both male and female, hate it when they end up being the one who does all or most of the work. I for one have ended relationships due to the girl rarely put forth any physical effort during sex.
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i've been modeling for NIU's art department for a little while and it totally bothers me that NOONE has been drawing my piercings!

i have small tits! they take up a great portion of that area! they can't be missed!

it's a total downer : (

i artfully avoided all the forward together forward bullshit enough to actually enjoy my v-day yesterday. morning sex and...
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silentwhisper:
awwww no one's nip piercings should go neglected tongue
ardour:
Hmm, with our powers combined we could cure your desire for a cinnamon snack and my fill need to impress the board with an amazing powerpoint presentation.
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oxy:
I know a girl that had been shot that said getting her nipple done was worse.
onespeed:
i like!
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so, i realize that it's been a long time since i've posted so, quick update.

aparently i was just freaking out. no cancer just a lot of stress and poor eating habits.

AND i started modeling for the art department at my school and it's pretty awesome.

i get paid to sit still naked!

more later.
ardour:
Glad to hear that you were just freaking out. Usually that's the case. I freak out about cancer fairly often, actually...

If someone would pay me to lay down still naked, that would be pretty cool, because then I could schedule my bed time around it and get paid to sleep.
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so, i've been worrying about something for a while and trying really hard to ignore it. ignoring it, however, has not made it go away and now i'm afraid its getting worse.

i think my cancer has come back. i noticed some of the symptoms about 6 weeks ago and tried to dismiss it. now i'm fairly certain. i'm weak, my muscles all ache, i'm...
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theeisman:
Hope your wrong

It is the adversidy of life that reminds us of who we are, who are friends are, and how important it is to enjoy the time we have.
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ok, since i've been goaded into blog writing about the holiday, here goes...

so, my b/f actually got along amazingly with my family and was able to control his drinking. my mother likes him and my mother hates everyone. he made my father laugh so hard he drooled and he talked religion with my papa who lives for that shit. my little brother actually stole...
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stick_da_vinci:
first....glad it all went well....best of luck with the 'booze only on weekends and special occasions' thing. I mean that in both the true, heartfelt, I DO like the guy so I hope it works out for you kinda way and the its hard to tell when an alcoholic is saying what they need to say to avoid a problem kinda way. So yeah....on that topic....fingers crossed for you whatever may happen.....I'm just really glad your x-mas went well!

secondly....I didnt goad you into writing anything, I simply reminded you I was waiting to hear about the holidays smile

(and I cant believe you thought Calvin had a last name.....geez! smile )
theeisman:
Its great when a plan comes together
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illinoisboi:
I love it, I was just home last weekend too =(

but thanks for the wishes and Merry Christmas to you