supernovice

Humans, what can you do??? Just because a woman's playing at a new playground doesn't mean there is no love. Women are needy, highly sensitive, and observant creatures. They also have a tendency to form misguided assumptions (haven't told her you love her like you do every morning before work? she's going to speculate on that. didn't give a smile she finds worthy? she'll speculate on that, too.). Feeling completely loved, secure, attractive and physically appealing, not to mention thought of (can we say "the little things" -- and women /notice/ the little things, so tiny you wouldn't believe...). Perhaps she's found something lacking, perhaps she just wants to experience something new -- especially if one or the other in the relationship has a hard time reinventing them self periodically. A lifetime of familiarity seems very gray. Remember what I told you about "stale love"? It's exciting to have that newness, to see yourself in a fresh light through someone else's eyes, to still feel that you have that sexual charisma/control... Woman is water. Woman is emotion. Woman can be a maelstrom. You simply cannot blame her for being human, for making judgments whether you conceive them as good or bad because of your own views. And I'm not defending her or trying to belittle her man's pain. But we all do have just this one life and we have to navigate through it not merely with "sound" judgment, but with happiness and desire in mind, as well. If not, then what are we living for? And if she didn't love her man, she wouldn't be hiding her happiness. If she were not scared of losing him, she would make herself free (though she could be afraid of the sacrifice, of making herself happy at the risk of his).
Or maybe she is just a "lying cunt."


That still doesn't make me hate her.