Melissa just let me know she is going out on a second date with someone. We were just together three weeks ago. We've been open that sex is a matter of convenience and that we'll stay friends whatever. She won't move up here and I won't move back to Florida. I'm happy she's seeing someone other than me. She deserves a real relationship. That doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. If we lived close to each other I would have asked her to marry me. Instead I'm just a friend. Oh well. 