I would like to know why some people seem to be incapable of putting their personal shit on the back burner. I'm not talking about indefinitely...I'm talking about doing it for the span of, say, an evening, with the intended purpose of not making your significant other miserable.
I'm not talking about necessarily taking your shit out on other people. That's active, and I could deal with that. I'm talking about deciding not to table your personal shit for the time that you're with another person, so that you're eternally preoccupied and crabby. That's passive, and irritating as fuck.
In other weird news, my ex-boyfriend is apparently back in SoCal. I'm not sure how I feel about that...
I'm not talking about necessarily taking your shit out on other people. That's active, and I could deal with that. I'm talking about deciding not to table your personal shit for the time that you're with another person, so that you're eternally preoccupied and crabby. That's passive, and irritating as fuck.
In other weird news, my ex-boyfriend is apparently back in SoCal. I'm not sure how I feel about that...
hey_fukko:
Some people are so preoccupied with themselves that all they can do is think about themselves and what's going on with them and it's all about them. It's a form of selfishness, really. It also stems from an inability to cope with the stresses that they're dealing with.