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Some people are just fucked up and lost

Nov 19, 2019
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I love everyone, and I know you mean the best for people, and I know you want to help. But some people are just fucked up and lost and beyond help, and I don't want the rest of you to get bogged down trying to assist the ones who are beyond hope.

The good news is, nobody (who-is-alive) is beyond hope/help in all ways. Some people who are irreparably damaged in some ways, can receive help in other ways. And if someone is damaged beyond repair regarding sexuality, or politics, or art, you can perhaps help them enjoy a normal-ish life in some other subject or area. But if somebody voted for trump, they are never going to vote for Bernie. And if somebody is fucked up about sex, you can't fix that. The best you can do is try to ease their life in other ways, if that's compatible with your happiness. But please don't spend so much effort trying to fix the unfixable that you sacrifice yourself. The world needs a large number of functional, whole people to continue on and fix the wrongs of the past, and if you are potentially functional, potentially whole, or both, don't throw that away trying to fix lost causes.

strask:
It is a couple months after I wrote the above, and I just want to add: If you are reading this and you think "I am just fucked up and lost" or "I am damaged beyond repair", you are not. You are able to be helped. You can help yourself, and you can find others to help you.  The people I was talking about, the ones who are beyond help... they don't even know that they need help. If you are hurting and need help, you deserve it and are worthy of love an assistance as much as anyone else. Don't give up hope, please keep searching for people to love you.
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