I'm a pretty open guy. And I like to make things fair.
So in the event that my girl wants to try being a dominatrix with a submisive dude, I want to have a hot woman whos got what I need and who wants to have a night of great sex! Funny part is I'm okay with that as long as it's not onesided. It has to be fair. That way she can't have her cake and eat it too.
This may never happen anyway cause she loves the sex we have together a whole lot, plus I presented the fact that it would change or even end the relationship in some way if we're not honest with each other. Still I don't feel like its gonna happen, but just in case, I want to be clear. I'll make someone else feel the way she does when we're having sex. That might make her stop. Or she'll just have to deal with it. Hahahaha! She's never gonna like the girls I choose if it were to happen, she hates SG, so I'll try to get someone from SG to have sex with, that would freak her shit out!!!
We all have our fantacies. But it may not be so safe to act them out. At least we have to know the consiquenses.
My spelling is bad, I know!
So in the event that my girl wants to try being a dominatrix with a submisive dude, I want to have a hot woman whos got what I need and who wants to have a night of great sex! Funny part is I'm okay with that as long as it's not onesided. It has to be fair. That way she can't have her cake and eat it too.
This may never happen anyway cause she loves the sex we have together a whole lot, plus I presented the fact that it would change or even end the relationship in some way if we're not honest with each other. Still I don't feel like its gonna happen, but just in case, I want to be clear. I'll make someone else feel the way she does when we're having sex. That might make her stop. Or she'll just have to deal with it. Hahahaha! She's never gonna like the girls I choose if it were to happen, she hates SG, so I'll try to get someone from SG to have sex with, that would freak her shit out!!!
We all have our fantacies. But it may not be so safe to act them out. At least we have to know the consiquenses.
My spelling is bad, I know!

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Anyhow, indeed things are not 0 or 1, but things do not have to be in between either: One needs to find what works for oneself, and this makes finding someone sufficiently compatible very hard (and also leads to the kind of issue you guys are having.) Submitting does not work for me, for example.
Cheers,
Lord_Frous
[Edited on Dec 07, 2004 2:25PM]