I was only in Maryland for 30 minutes and I managed to purchase a new vibrator and run into Morgan!
I get into these dead-end things and then I don't have the heart to get myself out. In my head I can hear the voice of my friend Mike saying 'it's because you let it happen' or 'it's because you don't have confidence.' That isn't enough of an answer though. I know lots of people who have horrible self images and are in relationships. And I know selfish people who continually find generous, kind partners who adore them. I think that self-reflection is wonderful, and I'm all for self improvement but I think that sometimes we tell ourselves that the problems lie within us because it gives us a sense of control.
I get into these dead-end things and then I don't have the heart to get myself out. In my head I can hear the voice of my friend Mike saying 'it's because you let it happen' or 'it's because you don't have confidence.' That isn't enough of an answer though. I know lots of people who have horrible self images and are in relationships. And I know selfish people who continually find generous, kind partners who adore them. I think that self-reflection is wonderful, and I'm all for self improvement but I think that sometimes we tell ourselves that the problems lie within us because it gives us a sense of control.
I'll be back at the very end of January!
And yes! We must hang. When my phone is back I shall give you the number, and when I'm back in MD we'll hang like crazy.