steve_huge

i find myself not updating to often... i thought it was just me... but it seems a number of my friends (real ones that are also members) aren't updating as often either...

i fear the novelty may have worn off a little for some of them... more like they are not getting from it what they need and find it else where...

the good thing about human nature is we all see, want, expect and get completely different things from the same object/thing... much like the way i see a lie...

the difference between a lie and this place is i know how i see this site and what the community side of it means, what i expect and what i dont... i still havent figured that one with the lie yet...

i fear too many people on this site see it in the wrong way... whether that be for good or bad... its still wrong... the same can be said of a lie... to many people see them in the wrong way...

but people get from each of those things and react to each of those things in their own personal ways... and as it is all relative... whether i see it wrong or not, there can be no right or wrong... just one persons reaction to any given situation or thing... and for me, just my opinion on that person and the way they see and deal with it...

is a stange thing... like a lie... no one wants to be judgmental... unfortunately, unless you are brain-dead it is impossible to not be judgmental... the point is how you deal with that... if you are outwardly judgmental... condemning someone for their opinion, belief, taste or outlook that is what makes the judgmental wrong... by all means express your judgment, after all judgment is nothing but an opinion with more conviction... but do not force it down someone's throat and do not be so inflexible that you blinker yourself from others judgments... some of my most valuable lessons and ideals were learnt in the most unusual and unlikely places... so i have learnt to accept opinions and beliefs from all comers now and not to pre judge... its the only way we grow...

anyway... i'll leave it there for now... anyone whos managed to read to the end of these out pourings... i salute you... i dont really expect anyone to read this far... not many people do...as to be honest... not many people really care enough...

but i will leave you with yet another quote that seems somewhat appropriate...


just because someone walks a different path, it does not mean that path is wrong...

a very true saying a number of people i can think of and have come across would do well to remember... especially on here...

including myself maybe...