Monday Jun 01, 2009

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sooooooo

I have been going through some hard times with this girl im with and i have kinda been cheating on her wth this other girl (who knows about my current girlfriend) and it has been kinda crazy. im in a hard spot right now and i have no idea what to do. I dont want to choose between them but im getting the feeling that i have to see this other girl that i have been getting with we have hooked up a few times and everything has been fine last night she was supposed to stay the night (we never had sex or really have hooked up just made out and some heavy touching ) which was all her idea and she made all these plans all week to come and stay and hang out with me but last minute bailed on me for some unknown reason and made me feel pretty bad. i don know what to do or how to work things out with her she tells me that since she just finished school and needs a job she has been stressed out but it kinda sounds to me like she was scarred to stay the night and maybe didnt want to have sex or whatever.... to me i wasnt looking for sex but just kinda a hookup. now thing are a mess and im lost...

please give me some real advice i could use it
casper:
be careful with that shit. hpv lives in 20% of adults in the US, not mentioning all the other stds and shit you can catch.

I only say this because I totally wouldve ho'd out, but I'm too scared I'd get a rotten vag.
mikodilbeck:
my first advice would be get some fruit flys that can't fly at the pet store. Then I would say if you truly like your current gf stay with her. If you think your developing feelings for the other girl. Bite the bullet and dump your current girl and pursue this new one, but be ready to loose both girls if you are trying to do two things at once. However if you are in a open relationship then you should be able to slowly introduce the new girl. It's complicated, but put yourself in your current gf position. Let's say you were her and you imagine how she will feel when she finds out.

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