Eh, I got a mate who's been in a relationship with a great girl for over a year now and things have been a bit rough for them. His parents are very very dominant: they rule his every waking moment: She moven in with him for a while so his mum made their life hell. So he kicked her out again. Since then it's been pretty rocky...She loves him with out doubt but he says he loves her but does nothing to show he does. Now there's a new girl in town that he says is a family friend. Problem: He has a very specific way he acts when he's trying to impress a potential girlfriend. And he's now acting like that. now i dunno if i should tell his current girlfriend about it and watch her get her heart broken, or see him and tell him to talk to her about it and probably insult him and then see her get her heart broken.... 
He's already told some other mates that he thinks this new girl is hot. He's invited her around and taken her out to the local club when he NEVER goes to the club. he's taking her places he'd normaly take his girlfriend. Argh he's pissing me of with how stupid he can be. he's going to throw away a great girl who love's him for everything he is...
But on the other hand:
who am i to decide who he really loves and how he really feels about something. i'm not him so i can't make these decisions about this whole thing. So i feel that it's not my life so i should butt out and let things flow their own course....
Being a caring friend and being a logical thinker don't mix. damb my brain to a room with a moose
He's already told some other mates that he thinks this new girl is hot. He's invited her around and taken her out to the local club when he NEVER goes to the club. he's taking her places he'd normaly take his girlfriend. Argh he's pissing me of with how stupid he can be. he's going to throw away a great girl who love's him for everything he is...
But on the other hand:
who am i to decide who he really loves and how he really feels about something. i'm not him so i can't make these decisions about this whole thing. So i feel that it's not my life so i should butt out and let things flow their own course....
Being a caring friend and being a logical thinker don't mix. damb my brain to a room with a moose
tonia:
aww, sorry ive taken so long to reply to this, works a bitch..its really hard in a situation like that because you could lose your friendship with him if you talk to her, i dont know what to say really, i guess maybe see what he says about it first, and if nothing comes to that talk to his girlfriend, im not sure, just tread carefully which ever way you go, i hope things work out..sorry i cant offer any more good advice im really hopeless at it, but if it was me thats what i would do but youre not me so, i guess you have to find a balance somehow/.somewhere, good luck honey.