So this may turn into rambling, but I've been thinking and i needed to get this down somewhere. Bear with me and i swear I'll get to my point eventually.
I was thinking about how i talk to people and how others talk to me, and how the conversations have developed as ive grown up. And i know this may seem obvious to most people but I realized how adult like I talk with people now. I know, duh right? But I never noticed the transition until now, we (we being me and whoever im conversing with) may still joke around but conversations take on more mature notes alot. As in a conversation about relationships turned into a informative religious chat about Hindu(ism?). Or we're discussing what to do on vacation and i think to myself about how it was when i was a kid and my parents had a whole schedule of things to do when we got to said vacation. And that thought led me to the thought of "oh shit, we're the adults now. We make those plans" and its weird cause it never occured to me before that for the past few years things haven't been planned and i have no set structure to obide by.
And i realize that some people will read this and think "wow, she's just understanding this?"
No. I understand, I just never thought about it before. Seemlessly slipping into the "adult world" just kind of happened. No thinking was necessary.
I'm not expecting any kind of response, its just a thought.... and I kinda needed to share
I was thinking about how i talk to people and how others talk to me, and how the conversations have developed as ive grown up. And i know this may seem obvious to most people but I realized how adult like I talk with people now. I know, duh right? But I never noticed the transition until now, we (we being me and whoever im conversing with) may still joke around but conversations take on more mature notes alot. As in a conversation about relationships turned into a informative religious chat about Hindu(ism?). Or we're discussing what to do on vacation and i think to myself about how it was when i was a kid and my parents had a whole schedule of things to do when we got to said vacation. And that thought led me to the thought of "oh shit, we're the adults now. We make those plans" and its weird cause it never occured to me before that for the past few years things haven't been planned and i have no set structure to obide by.
And i realize that some people will read this and think "wow, she's just understanding this?"
No. I understand, I just never thought about it before. Seemlessly slipping into the "adult world" just kind of happened. No thinking was necessary.
I'm not expecting any kind of response, its just a thought.... and I kinda needed to share
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richard_:
Yay for the weekend!!! 
twodragons:
LOL I remember a teacher in HS telling me that he knew he was an adult when he realized that when he went out all the wait staff were suddenly his age or younger...