You know what... I really dont know whats going on anymore.
People are so messy and hard work. Why do we bother with all this emo crap?
We spend our whole life trying to be accepted, to be recognised by others that we feel we have a connection with. We cry, we get mad, we poor soooo much energy into the hope that we will fall madly in love witn someone. Have the hollywood kiss. Perfect family.
But does any of this ever really exsist?
I dont know anyone who's happy with their relationship 100% of time.. As a matter of fact most of the people I know who are in relationships bitch about them 96% of the time.
Take this for an example:
Girl A is infactuated with Boy B... but Boy B doesnt really give a shit and has fallen for Girl B... but Boy B just sticks with Girl A because its easy. But neither of them will be truely happy.
Ehh.. i could rant for hours but its been a long day..
In other news, nice meeting everyone at the SG ball thingo..
People are so messy and hard work. Why do we bother with all this emo crap?
We spend our whole life trying to be accepted, to be recognised by others that we feel we have a connection with. We cry, we get mad, we poor soooo much energy into the hope that we will fall madly in love witn someone. Have the hollywood kiss. Perfect family.
But does any of this ever really exsist?
I dont know anyone who's happy with their relationship 100% of time.. As a matter of fact most of the people I know who are in relationships bitch about them 96% of the time.
Take this for an example:
Girl A is infactuated with Boy B... but Boy B doesnt really give a shit and has fallen for Girl B... but Boy B just sticks with Girl A because its easy. But neither of them will be truely happy.
Ehh.. i could rant for hours but its been a long day..
In other news, nice meeting everyone at the SG ball thingo..
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Relationships.
I'm onto my second marriage; 2 kids from the first (11 and 13 y.o) - my 3rd is due in October to my 2nd wife.
All I can say from my life experience is .... water seeks it's own level - it is more important that the person you want to be with is close to your own life experiences.
My 1st wife was too far from my experiences of family and socio-economic "level".
Her Mum was happy to be a single mum on the pension and that is exactly what my ex strived for and got.
Sad.
My 2nd wife is perfect. We actually went to primary and high-school together (she was my formal partner), sounds sickly sweet, but it makes me smile as it is a bit of a fairy tale .... and I love it and her.
Her upbringing was like mine and thus we have similar expectations in life, careers, kids, travel etc.
You're a gorgeous, independant young women.
If you don't work at it - I find that it just happens.
Go with the flow.
Chin up.