*sigh* All my friends seem to have fallen off the face of the earth completely since the pregnancy really started showing. What the hell? Every time I talk to them the bulk of the conversation seems to be them trying to make me feel better about the fact that I'm having a kid, which irritates the crap out of me because I'm thrilled about it, yet they seem to feel like I should need consoling. 
On the upside, the hubby's buddies have been all kinds of awesome. Most of them are married and have munchkins of their own though, so I imagine that helps. Still, it's really nice to spend time with people that are happy for us, not trying to comfort me like they feel really bad about it. I just can't understand how having a child is something that warrants sympathy.
On the upside, the hubby's buddies have been all kinds of awesome. Most of them are married and have munchkins of their own though, so I imagine that helps. Still, it's really nice to spend time with people that are happy for us, not trying to comfort me like they feel really bad about it. I just can't understand how having a child is something that warrants sympathy.
On the other hand, they should at least make an attempt at being supportive. Bastards.