spacelola

yay for your birthday weekend. i wouldnt mind hanging out with ya soon!

I like cupcakes.

Just remember that not all men are douchbags.. there are some great one out there..I know a few.. I do believe my brother is one of the best men to ever walk the face of this earth! Of course he is my brother so.. but really he is! I know other men too.. who very sweet and kind! Maybe you just looking in all the wrong places?

Sorry to hear that you've been having problems.. I've given up! I've tried the online things.. and it seems like the only thing guys are looking for are quick lays..and I don't want that..I want someone who is going to respect me, and want to get to know me for who I am! The good and bad! So I give up! If there is someone out there then he'll come to me.. The pics are cute

and there is someone I know whose b-day is this week?? Hmm.. I wonder who that is?

yay for cute pictures!

definitely not all men are douchebags, just most of em. i think the good ones though are few and far between. you just gotta find em and keep em!

ya excited bout your birthday next weekend?

They say, "Revenge is a dish best served cold."

I think revenge in this case will be VERY hot!

you betcha!

hmmm... I guess it all depends on why the two people broke up in the first place.. and how they treated each other afterwards that matters! Some people just know they aren't meant for each other, or with each other and are better off as friends. If they can end the relationship.. and remains friends (just friends) then I really don't see the problem with it. However there needs to be boundries in the friendship I believe.. lines that shouldn't be crossed..and if one or both of them cross that line.. it's time to end that friendship.. cause like you said it failed for a reason..and really it doesn't make sense.. and unless they both have changed majorly they will continue to go around and round in cicles!

Personally.. it would depend on the situation for me.. I have MAJOR trust issues because of my past 28 years of life..and things I've seen and lived through, and how I've been hurt and those feelings would play a VERY big part in how I felt.. I like to control situations too..because if I'm in control..I feel I'm more then likely not going to get hurt! Both are not good things! Another factor would be how HE felt about her while they were going out, and after they broke up!

My advice to you.. if you find yourself in this situation.. be honest and open with the guy you are seeing, and let him know how you feel, if it's bothering you tell him how you feel about it! Be open, be honest, and most of all communicate! I think the biggest reason people fail at relationship is they don't talk, and they are not open with each other! I sometimes think guys should be able to read my mind.. I'm learning. no that's not true..I have to say it out loud! lol.. If you don't let someone know your expectations, they will never know.. if you don't let them know it bothers you then they will never know! Especially guys.. we girls can signs, and pick up on body language.. I'm learning from having two best friends who are guys.. that's not so with them..they don't pay attention to that stuff! So you have to be extra assertive with them! So talk.. let him know.. and then it's in his court!

No one warned you that I write novels huh? lol.. Oop! I do.. lol..

i'm only still friends with one of my ex's and we were good friends before we started dating. we wanted to try dating and failed... didn't talk for a couple months then went back to being best friends. we're both married now and get along with each others' spouse (he gets a long way too well with my husband, lol)... so it works, but normally it never works out that way...

get yourself better, we need to hang out again soon! and strep throat sucks!

i still woulda made out with ya!

NOOOO.... You would of been all kinds of sick...

awww..come on we want more details..lol.. first meetings are ALWAYS strange.. and odd.. so it's normal! And yes he's a pretty cool guy!

i had a wonderful time and you did fine! see ya next weekend, right?

yay for meeting new internet friends!

YAY.. Mike is super cool and nice..

i cant get over how damn cute you are, im gonna have a rough time keeping my hands to myself on saturday. make sure you keep me in line! short hair, long hair, im sure you can pull the look off either way!

I'm gonna agree with Mike.. you are so damn cute! I like both.. I like how the top one is layered

New ink always rocks!!!! I love the way some of the stars almost resemble falling leaves on an autumn day.

Thanks guys... I am planning on getting it on my side.... I LOVE LOVE LOVE stars and have an unhealthy obsession with them..
Also fall is my fav time of year so that was the plan of the tattoo... I wanted it to look like they were falling or being blown around my the wind... Instead of leaves, stars....

You are so cute..and so much like me (aside from the blond thing..I've got black hair..lol) it's actually kind of scary to read what you wrote.. cause it's so much like me! lol..

you should come to this: