Wednesday Jul 14, 2004

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i think i may be an asshole. you decide.

i broke up with my girlfriend of 8 months and then (in the midst of an emotion-numbing drinking binge) kinda fell into bed with this girl who'd had a crush on me for a while (and who i'd fancied as well). and that happened a day after the breakup. no, i didn't plan it.

so the worst part is that i let her (the ex) find out about this. she thinks i'm a jackass and have committed a great sin against her. i think that i'm a little bit slutty (and am okay with that) and i should have been more discrete. try as i might, i can't seem to feel bad about my quick turnaround, just bad that she found out.

anyone have any wise words?

(ps: yes, the one-day-later girl and i are still seeing each other. and she rules. )
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lucky:
Whoops. Nasty fuck up.

Yeah she'll probably think you're a bastard for a while, but all you can do is be apologetic about the way things happened but not that they did. Sounds like you were done witht that relationship anyway.

Most like it'll blow over. I had a boyfriend do that to me and truth is, I was pissed for a while, but I got over about two days later when I fessed up to my self that even though we were through with eachother I would have really liked it if he had you know....MOURNED our break up.

Hang in there.

(That was a bit long winded for someone you don't know... sorry.)
xvioletx:
my ex did that to me too. and then we got back together. and he did it again. we always want them to "mourn" . but truth is....well........at least you broke up first ?

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