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happy cinco de mayo! (sry if i misspelled that, my little bit of spanish is very rusty...) to celebrate i'm stretching to a 4g... well not really, i just got some awesome jewelry from volterra and it just happens to coincide with a holiday

i'm considering running off with some extra money on monday and getting inked. depends on what the weather is tongue
volterra:
i'm glad you like the plugs enough to celebrate with them! though I gues it would be more fitting if you were stretching with 5gauge plugs on cinco de mayo. wink
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ok, i know i just updated, but i feel the extremely rare need to gossip puke i appologize ahead of time for the lengthy back-stories, but they add a certain understanding to it all

lately i've been running into people who i have absolutely no clue how to interact with.

my hubby has this friend, who while he is a nice guy, tends to be a...
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tubaart:
Well, first, it sounds like you need to find another time or place to go grocery shopping! tongue

And yeah, that sort of thing has happened. People I've had uncomfortable relationships pop up now and then and it's usually just uncomfortable all over again.

I would have to lean to the side of being civil (if nothing more) to these folks in public -- only because doing otherwise would just make you look bad. Holding all those difficult feelings in, though, isn't healthy for you.

I have to ask you -- what does holding on to the hard feelings do for you? It doesn't sound like it helps much, and just keeps you stewing. My suggestion is to not let these folks continue to have such control over your life. They're not worth it. Relax, know you're better than they are, and let them go on with their petty miserable lives.

Ok, enough psycho-babble. shocked

So what's up with you? Able to get out more? confused
fuchsia:
lately? no
ever? yes

i kept my head down and pretended to read the ingredients
of something or other until they'd passed

i don't know what i'd do nowadays
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well my friend isn't getting married in july. they're putting it off until october because of some silly issue with churches, etc... it really sucks for her but it gives me more time to save up biggrin
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beryn:
more time to save can be a good thing but i know that waiting when you want to get married can suck (. That is weird that the churches are making them wait lol, oh well how've you been doin? smile
beryn:
doh lol, mine have been way off lately too. I dont have a good reason just havent had alot of work to do the past few weeks so had enough free time to somehow started sleeping 4 hours or so in the afternoon/evening and being up all night lol.
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i think we're finally getting out of the trailer. this is gonna rock
tubaart:
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sweet...............

my july travel plans are solved. greyhound and budget car rental for me and my mom is $500. i will have that much saved up by then

another cheap summer getaway snatched from the hands of debt and boredom biggrin
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beryn:
score one for the skygge lol. smile Hang in there i'm sure you'll get some of it worked out, if not you can always come harass those of us in kc if that works better i wouldnt complain biggrin
daghost:
Summer getaway to where?
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i have had a revelation, an epiphany if you will: the mediocrity that is my life is entirely unacceptable. i care too much how people perceive me to the point of being so dull and disinteresting that my few friends don't even bother to ask me what's up, because it is perpetually "same shit, different day". screw what people think, especially the ones who think...
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tubaart:
You go, girl!! biggrin

tomarrow i get my butt motivated and do something to dig myself out of the hole i've fallen into.

Don't wait for tomorrow -- tomorrow never comes. Start it today. If nothing else, spend the day figuring out WHAT you are going to do tomorrow -- so that you can get it done.

YOU are in control of your life. Remember, "No one can make you feel inferior [or anything else for that matter] without your permission." It doesn't matter how people perceive you if it is forcing you to be someone you are not.

Grab the bull by the horns. Carpe Diem! smile
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nothing too interesting happening here, i'm working for my dad today so this a quick update during my lunch break.

please check out my little business page. i know the pics are crappy (i HATE this camera!) so please bear with me, the pictures don't give my product justice!
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techno_ballerina:
hope you don't mind if i add you. those tornado pics are amazing...especially the flipped over school bus. some loose tiles (gutter things?) got blown off our roof...but i feel grateful that all is well.

where is moberly? i've never heard of it.
rainmaker:
You should get seam tattoos!
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just posted some of my art. i appologize for the blurriness... my old crappy camera died and the replacement is worse, scanner is in storage at my mom's house. these are all tattoo ideas, three have special symbolism to me besides being my original artwork, one simply goes along with the theme of the other


kitty sleeve: in memory of my cat mittens. she was...
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goob:
what a cute profile pic. smile
illgato:
Hey! Someone recognized the digits! biggrin I was so excited when I heard that song because I finally found good digits for that piece.

Clutch + binary = love
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after almost 5 1/2 years i'm finally becoming accustomed to the climatology of this place... it's a damp 65 outside this morning and i just took out the trash in my boxers, tank top, and bare feet without so much as a chill or even goosebumps puke

it's always nice to have someone you know well to turn to when you feel like everything is going...
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beryn:
that sucks about the sg stuff. It is good to talk to someone when things are bothering you. It might not sound like a good idea but i know i almost always feel better afterwords. As for the D word, let me know if you had any questions or wanted to talk about it, i've been there, its not fun but it is easier than one might think.

Ya i'll pretty much was thinking that too about my ink, hopefully i get paid soon (checks are late since were waiting for some clients to pay us) so i can get it done, but we'll see when it happens.
tubaart:
We pretty much dodged the bullet again. smile We had a really brief bout (2 min?) of pea-sized hail -- maybe a total of 20 hailstones per square yard. Maybe. LOL

We don't have a basement, though frown Just an interior hallway. So far we've been lucky, and since part of the house is like 120 years old, I suspect the lay of the land protects us somewhat. I can hope anyway... whatever

I'd normally say don't worry about reapplying, except it's been sooooo long, you'll almost definitely need to fill out new paperwork. Still you can wait till you have a shoot "in the can" before you apply again.

Definitely post your ink ideas and app pics -- I'd LOVE to see them! biggrin I fear we have pretty similar senses of humor. shocked
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TRAGEDY STRIKES!!

i just noticed that one of my pyrex double flares fell out in my sleep, thankfully i found it since they are (well were) the only jewelry i could wear for an extended amount of time. in the four hours between when i woke up and now, the hole went from a 6g to about a 10g frown restretching sucks!!

oh and sophie is...
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beryn:
doh! that doesnt sound fun at all. I've been meaning too pick it up just havent gotten around to it lol. I'll see what $ looks like after payday and i might have it soon, it'll also depend on when my other shoulder piece is done and scheduled for lol, i'll get that done before i pick gw up most likely hehe. Hang in there babe! smile
kitsuneluvsyuki:
i think i'm gonna do a yaoi set next. Art suggested i do a set involving something i'm passionate about...and i am definitely obsessed with the yaoi biggrin
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so the other computer should get here tomarrow sometime, and while i'm excited i'm also dreading it. i know that things won't be any better but at least i won't get the boot every day at 4:30

that just means i won't have an excuse for staying up all night and sleeping all day, or for sleeping on the couch for that matter frown

i kinda...
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beryn:
Hang in there, times can try to get you down (and sometimes do a damn good job) but as long as you look forward things get better after time. smile
beryn:
I'm pretty much retired from eq, i rarely log on. I play wow a little off and on when i'm traveling for work alot since its easiest to play on the road. Guild wars i havent tried yet, i understand what your talking about i just havent played it myself yet. I have been playing DDO off and on lately and its pretty fun, but dont think the raiding they have will come near to comparing to eq.
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this year's travel ideas and dates UPDATED!! and other happier things...

may is out. he won't go with me and he won't let me go alone or with someone else mad is there one closer? say... stl or kc?

july is screwed! he says (and i quote) "you're not spending my vacation time to go without me" well if i go without you then you don't...
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greggster:
Yeah it seems like you have a handful....well if anything welcome to SGSAC maybe it will give you chance to see and hear about familiar stuff.

Oh and if you ever do make it back out this way let us know.

PS: those tornado pics are the reason I will never reside in tornado alley eeek
venti_mistake:
I'm going to try to get to a scanner today so I can deliver yours alot of other drawings. wink If not, everybody definitely gets their stuff tomorrow.

I have to rely on the shop scanner because mine is currently out of comission.