skitzjones

Everyone's different right. Hey the wait is a bitch, but at least when one knows what they want it becomes easier to strive for that goal because you feel you are actually being true to your self and your desires. We all slip at times so if you do, don't beat yourself up about it. And most men go though some sort of experimental phase where they want to "fuck everything that moves" sorry couldn't think of a better way to put it. Gladly most people grow out of that, but hey it isn't a gender issue because some women are the same exact way.

P.S. Tell this loser you're not doing his share of the work asap!

ttyl.

I think everyone at one point in their lives becomes disillusioned with love, if they haven't then they either have never loved because refused to put themselves out there and risk getting hurt...or just don't need it. Then there are those who got really lucky and ended up with their mate starting from a very young age. But the important thing is to not stay bitter or think it won't happen for you. Gosh knows I've been through that phase. But in the end the more I held grudges the more it hurt me instead of the exes you know... some people can live thier whole lives without needing love romantically and that's wonderful, than there are others who want it but go for anyone who will give them affection instead of someone who is right for them... really it's never simple the pursuit for it. But as they say it'll happen when you least expect it. When it all gets pretty lonely i just remember there are tons of people in this exact position, wanting to love but being alone...yet still staying truthful to their standards of what they want from a partner. Well I can ramble more...but i'll end with a quote because I like quotes!
"You are what you love and not what loves you back." So you're right on the money about needing to love/accept yourself or at least be okay with yourself lol before trying to love someone else.