So, 2010 has been pretty shit so far.
A bunch of little crappy things happened, but the main thing is that my "best" friend suddenly stopped talking to me, and I don't know why. It's been about a month now actually. I can only think of two things that I had done which could have sparked her grudge: I was kinda bitchy one day, and not wanting to go off with a group of my friends I just ignored all of their texts and calls. Then they had the nerve to show up at my house (which I hate), and so I promptly said a few words and shut the door. In my defense, this action wasn't towards her personally...it was towards all of them--the whole world--I was having a bad day and just wanted to be alone.
The other thing is this huge dispute we've been having over a set of dvds. She has a workout program that we had been doing together, and I decided I would like her to make copies for me (which she gladly said she would). First of all it took her way longer than expected to actually copy them, and then when she said that she was done with them and was going to drop them off at my house she never showed up. And she didn't even have the courtesy to tell me why she didn't come over, and she didn't even attempt to reschedule a time when she would drop them off or have me come pick them up. Now, the dvds themselves aren't a big deal, but I bought exercise equipment to go along with it. I got them at discounted prices but still, it was a fairly large sum of money, especially considering that I'm unemployed. She was even really excited to hear that I had bought equipment, because she would be sharing it with me. I know I can still use the equipment, but I bought them specifically for this program. I've never been much of a workout kind of person, but this program really motivated me...and now every time I see an add for it I just get really angry. I tried asking her for my copies again last week, and she just ignored me.
Maybe I did something wrong that I can't think of. But it's really not like her to just flat out ignore me like that. If all this is about the door-slamming incident then she should know that I have my antisocial moments. Things like that have happened before, just maybe not to that extent. And if it's about the dvds, then I don't know where I went wrong. I just asked her to do me a favor and then (gasp!) actually expected her to do it. How shameful of me.
Oh well. Ranting over now.
A bunch of little crappy things happened, but the main thing is that my "best" friend suddenly stopped talking to me, and I don't know why. It's been about a month now actually. I can only think of two things that I had done which could have sparked her grudge: I was kinda bitchy one day, and not wanting to go off with a group of my friends I just ignored all of their texts and calls. Then they had the nerve to show up at my house (which I hate), and so I promptly said a few words and shut the door. In my defense, this action wasn't towards her personally...it was towards all of them--the whole world--I was having a bad day and just wanted to be alone.
The other thing is this huge dispute we've been having over a set of dvds. She has a workout program that we had been doing together, and I decided I would like her to make copies for me (which she gladly said she would). First of all it took her way longer than expected to actually copy them, and then when she said that she was done with them and was going to drop them off at my house she never showed up. And she didn't even have the courtesy to tell me why she didn't come over, and she didn't even attempt to reschedule a time when she would drop them off or have me come pick them up. Now, the dvds themselves aren't a big deal, but I bought exercise equipment to go along with it. I got them at discounted prices but still, it was a fairly large sum of money, especially considering that I'm unemployed. She was even really excited to hear that I had bought equipment, because she would be sharing it with me. I know I can still use the equipment, but I bought them specifically for this program. I've never been much of a workout kind of person, but this program really motivated me...and now every time I see an add for it I just get really angry. I tried asking her for my copies again last week, and she just ignored me.
Maybe I did something wrong that I can't think of. But it's really not like her to just flat out ignore me like that. If all this is about the door-slamming incident then she should know that I have my antisocial moments. Things like that have happened before, just maybe not to that extent. And if it's about the dvds, then I don't know where I went wrong. I just asked her to do me a favor and then (gasp!) actually expected her to do it. How shameful of me.
Oh well. Ranting over now.
toxic:
hopefully she gets over whatever is causing her to be distant and you two patch things up!