alright no wories dude.
you just have to wrod things better. If I took you comment about my son and his living arrangments with me the wrong way its because it's bluntness hit a string in me that rang sour.
a lot of people see young mothers who still get to lead their own lives as girls who are spoiled. I am anything but. and have taken a great deal of shit to surprisingly end up the way I am. I make no excuses tho. Life's a bitch, wear a helmet right?
furthurmore my comment was perhaps not only to clarify things with you, but to the general masses of this site. I have had sole custody of my son since he was born, and if my parents didnt live 4 blocks away from me I'm sure they'd play a smaller role in his life, but thats just the way it is. I'm lucky to have them, lucky to have an awesome daycare he got accepted into and of course, lucky to have my son. I see you have a son yourself so of course you should understand the joys of having a child, but the need to occasionally do your own thing for your own sanity.
sorry to hear you're taking a break, but maybe while you're on that break you can think about how to be a little more selective as to how your curious questions effect others. We all have our reputations to uphold on the internet, and respecting the rep of my son I choose not to include him here.
I hope this puts things in perspective....oh and sorry for the novel, but I'm a rambler
you just have to wrod things better. If I took you comment about my son and his living arrangments with me the wrong way its because it's bluntness hit a string in me that rang sour.
a lot of people see young mothers who still get to lead their own lives as girls who are spoiled. I am anything but. and have taken a great deal of shit to surprisingly end up the way I am. I make no excuses tho. Life's a bitch, wear a helmet right?
furthurmore my comment was perhaps not only to clarify things with you, but to the general masses of this site. I have had sole custody of my son since he was born, and if my parents didnt live 4 blocks away from me I'm sure they'd play a smaller role in his life, but thats just the way it is. I'm lucky to have them, lucky to have an awesome daycare he got accepted into and of course, lucky to have my son. I see you have a son yourself so of course you should understand the joys of having a child, but the need to occasionally do your own thing for your own sanity.
sorry to hear you're taking a break, but maybe while you're on that break you can think about how to be a little more selective as to how your curious questions effect others. We all have our reputations to uphold on the internet, and respecting the rep of my son I choose not to include him here.
I hope this puts things in perspective....oh and sorry for the novel, but I'm a rambler