Is there a correlation (in your experience) between who you've been the most sexually compatible with and who you loved the most? should i bother to dissect that or draw conclusions about "love?" about why we shouldn't ask why, but just say "yes." and by sexually compatible i don't mean "we both like to masturbate into shoes, how nice that we share an interest." i mean everything about the way that they look, feel, smell, sound, taste, move takes whatever you were capable of feeling before them and turns the frequency up to 11. A whole new you in the experience. How could you not be desperately in love with that person? It would be like lying to your autonomous nervous system, hitting it with an encyclopedia of eharmony compatibility questions to shush it and throwing a damp towel of circumstances not being ideal over it like a baize curtain over a plaintive canary in its cage.
why do you love me? because i do, because you're you: both should be accepted and the conversation ended with that, happy, content, quietly thankful
then there's the logistics, but love has nothing to do with logic.
why do you love me? because i do, because you're you: both should be accepted and the conversation ended with that, happy, content, quietly thankful
then there's the logistics, but love has nothing to do with logic.
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And isn't it such a close, second cousin to love? A necessity, in fact?
Unfortunately, many of those ladies still get arrested quite frequently at best, or live in inordinately depressing realities with which I've always been entirely inequipped to dea at best. In the immortal words of the Meatmen: Freud was wrong.
But Darwin had something there.
It has all to do with logic. The simple logic of procrastinating (which works, by the way), running out the clock, and sparing some poor bastard's feelings... or checking it out really hard first, in which case Springsteen, disappointment, or subwoofers inevitably kick in and make you wonder what in the heck you're doing there.
Then again, though I've historically had several, I've never really had that many options.
the eternal question, innit?
Thank the Lord for Match.com and background checks! What would we do without you?
I tend to despise the ones I have the best amazing sex with, and to have platonic relationship with those who're the mot important in my life. The balance is really strange and random. Of course, I feel well with people I love, it's really tender, sometimes deep and intense, BUT. I think for me sex is better with people I don't really care. There is like a big hole between my feelings and my sexuality.
Which is sometimes fucking annoying.