Login
Forgot Password?

OR

Login with Google Login with Twitter Login with Facebook
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • SuicideGirls
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
Vital Stats Tip

silvery

Victoriaville (Vancouver Island)

SG Since 2012

Followers 10962 Following 864

  • Everything
  • Photos
  • Video
  • Blogs
  • Groups
  • From Others

prepare for a RANT

Sep 13, 2017
14
  • Facebook
  • Tweet
  • Email



This has been a topic that I feel very strongly about and society seems to put on such a pedestal. I would love to hear your opinion or side on this.

What is the topic? RELATIONSHIP STATUS

Now I will start this by saying this is not an angry rant coming from someone single, I have a boyfriend but single or not, that should not affect this.

I am sick and tired of people being seen as "Farther in life" or "More successful" simply because they have a partner. "What are your achievements? oh. You have a partner, then your life is perfect" NO

Most marriages nowadays end in divorce nowadays, because people simply feel that having someone makes their life complete. "Oh, but ours is different. We love each other"
That is what every couple says in the beginning, if you're still together in 5 years, then we can talk. How about try making some achievements. Everyone is so hung up on relationships and their status that they'll even give up opportunities to a better life simply to please another. I've seen people stop perusing dreams of theirs because of a partner, hell, even I've been there.

But this bugs me the most. When people put others down for their relationship status. Sorry someone else chose to not settle. Thats their choice, and their relationship status is nothing to insult. They haven't met someone special yet, or it just hasn't started yet. Leave it at that, but to insult someone and assume negatives because they are single

"Oh they're single, something is wrong with them" is a toxic and overall shitty way to think of people. Grow up. this isn't high school and your shitty way of thinking wont get you any farther in life, instead you put your relationship status on such a pedestal that you feel it is all that matters.

This being entirely said. That doesn't mean that you can't appreciate your relationship. I worship my partner, but we are that. Partners. We help each other out. We encourage each other to do what we dream, even if it affects us. A relationship is suppose to be supportive of building each other. Not something to have just to show it off on your social media or to your family and/or friends.

I'm just tired of people making fun of someone because they are single. Like really? There are billions of people in the world. It's not about settling. you can find your perfect partner, They just may not be in your proximity. Some people find love at a young age, and good for them. Finding someone later is ok too. People grow up. People change. We all do it. I'm a very different person then In was a year ago. Time and patience. People find love at their own pace. It's not determined for them. They can't choose to have love by 20, 30, even 50. It's not someone's choice, unless they decide they need to be alone for awhile. If so, that is their choice and they chose to for a reason. Respect their choice! Respect their status!


</END RANT>

Thank you for listening
XOXOX

VIEW 13 of 13 COMMENTS
giotost20:
We had three kids and they, and everything that goes with having a family pretty much wrecked us financially. Now I am fine being single...I second your opinion!
Nov 24, 2017
freakme:
Respect & ❤ L♡VE ❤
Nov 25, 2017

More Blogs

  • 02.03.22
    4

    Hey guys, I won't be on live today

    a bug came on suddenly yesterday (not covid) and I'm struggling 💛 I…
  • 01.20.22
    3

    my live suddenly ended! Avast! See you guys tomorrow on twitch if you…

  • 10.08.21
    3

    Hey guys it seems I'm not able to come back on stream 😭 I'll be back …

  • 09.08.21
    3

    RT @Silvery_Streams: Going live on @SuicideGirls in 30 minutes! Come …

  • 09.08.21
    1

    I may go live here later today 😊 let's say around 5PM PST// 8PM EST? 💛

  • 09.03.21
    0

    RT @rustyrosephoto: 2 sets are coming out in the next couple weeks fr…

  • 09.03.21
    0

    RT @silverslatee: My first set comes out in 2 weeks!! Be sure to foll…

  • 08.09.21
    6

    The only reason I do blogs anymore is zory 😂

    I got tagged in another one of these by my lovely friendo @zory . …
  • 06.25.21
    0

    RT @Silvery_Streams: Going live on @SuicideGirls . Come hang while I …

  • 05.25.21
    1

    RT @ZoryStardust: So. I love this set, “Vintage Vixen” on @SuicideGir…

We at SuicideGirls have been celebrating alternative pin-up girls for:

23
years
10
months
2
days
  • 5,509,826 fans
  • 41,393 fans
  • 10,327,617 followers
  • 4,597 SuicideGirls
  • 1,121,292 followers
  • 14,935,341 photos
  • 321,315 followers
  • 61,430,511 comments
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
  • Help
  • About
  • Press
  • LIVE

Legal/Tos | DMCA | Privacy Policy | 18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Requirements Compliance Statement | Contact Us | Vendo Payment Support
©SuicideGirls 2001-2025

Press enter to search
Fast Hi-res

Click here to join & see it all...

Crop your photo