This is a total "take my side" blog but I felt the need to post. My brother is so hateful and has gotten rather violent and I'm not sure how to fix the situation.
This is the last conversation we had via text on Saturday.
SPOILERS! (Click to view)Saturday, August 28, 2010
Me: Just so you know, I'm using the car tonight.
Deven: Why? You use it every friday and sat night
Me: You use it every night. It's my turn to go out and do something fun. My friend is playing a show. I already asked mom. I'll give you a ride but I don't use the care for anything other than work or babysitting so for once, I want to be able to go out and see my friends.
D: Alright, whatev. You can't take the other car? You got to take the mazda yesterday and i need it to drive to centennial and then highlands ranch and these are plans i had for week
Me: I'm going downtown
D: I have to go to centenial and then to catherines on business then the ranch and if you don't believe me ask cat i have to take a lot of trips which is farther, plus im filling the mazda tank up. I asked you yesterday if you needed the car tonight, you never said you did
Me: Yeah, well. It's mom's car and I asked mom if I could use it. I'ts not your's so I don't have to ask your permission. Not to mention at 10:37 this morning you said alright.
D: That's fucking bullshit, she just NOW told me to fill up the care so I can use it
Me: Well do your shit today before I get off work.
D: I CANT! Take the fucking lightrail if you don't wanna drive the other car. I am FILLING UP the car so I can go coach my friends team first game at 6 45 - 9 45 IN centennial. And then catherines in sheridan. Then dropping them off in highlands ranch.. I have to do everything tonight. If you wanna be selfish and fuck my entire weekend fuck you. Thats YOUR decision to babysit. And you have another job reguardless while im trying to find a job cuz i cant caddy in the winter. You should of told me last night and i would have arranged car plans but you didnt. You take the car tonight all my IMPORTANT plans are fucked so you can go off and go downtown and have fun. Take the fucking lightrail if your so concerned about taking the rev or whatev
Me: Whatever. I don't have time to argue with a pathetic piece of shit like you. do what you need to do. i hope you get caught and arrested. Best be careful how you talk to me. do me a favor and delete my number. Like I said before, I want nothing to do with you.
D: Go fuck yourself you selfish cunt. You are the definition of a selfish fucking bitch. You care only for yourself. You wanna ruin my important plans so you can go off being a fucking whore fuck you.
Me: Just take the car. Life your life. I'll live mine. To me, you don't exist. Don't count me as your sister. You are dead to me. And you have been for a very long time.
D: Do you think I really give a fuck?
Me: No. Nor do I care if you do or not. One day, you're going to land yourself in jail for the way you treat people, women especially. Let alone your own family. And I will not hesitate to call the cops myself and testify.
D: Lol what? First off you dont know me. If you did, you would know i treat women better than anyone. You would know that i treat them with sooo much respect. You a piece of dirt, not even a woman. So its completely different. I have never hit a girl no even though of even coming close to it. If you knew me like the close people in my life, you would know that i beat the fucking shit out of guys who hit women. I beat the shit out of guys who even lay a finger on women. So dont even fucking try saying shit when you dont know me. So fuck you. You make me laugh, call the cops? For what? Get your head out of your ass before you talk out of it you fuck.
Me: So pushing Michelle into a wall is not considered hitting? Bruising her kidney and having to go to urgent care? Hitting things and getting into the face of your own mother. That may not be hitting but that's still domestic violence. I'm done.
D: I what?? Bruised her kidney? What the fuck are you talking about? I didn't even pus her, she tried hitting me in the face and i defended myself by grabbing her arms and keeping them out of reach to hitting me and she was AGAINST the wall i never pushed her and not nearly close to bruising her kidney. Stop making shit up to make me look bad. You are the definition of a lieing cunt you never say lies like that about me you fucking bitch piece of shit you fucking horrible shit stain fuck. And mom pops oxy's and chooses drugs and other shit over her son and her sons activities like hockey and important shit, so who gives a shit if I get in her face. Shes been a shitty mother as you have been a piece of shit sister and human being. Making up lies that I bruised michelles kidney? I kept her stationary so she wouldnt hit me. Are you have fun talking out of your ass and saying shit like you know me and was there at the time? Because its making you look like the desperate fucking cunt you are. I swear your immaturity is like a 9 year old. And she never had to go to urgent care cuz of you you fat piece of shit fuck. You fucking whale whore get your head out of your giant ass, you never say lies like that never. Thats fucking bullshit your fucking dead to everyone but your two only friends.. Maybe if you were such a fucking bitch who talked out of your asshole EVERYONE would feel SORRY for you. But guess what, your selfishness, your lieing reputation and you being a total cunt piece of shit is the reason why everyone hates you and doesnt feel sorry for your puke image. Go fuck yourself. And Michelle is the only one in this family that knows me and understands me. So for you to go on and say that i bruised her kidney and all that shit you can go fuck yourself if you think that.
D: Last thing I'm ever going to say to your pathetic piece of shit. You dont know me, you know know who I am, and you especially dont know what the FUCK IVE BEEN THROUGH in my life!! So shut your fucking mouth
I'll admit, I might have started it this time, but this is how he blows up EVERY TIME we have any sort of conversation at the house.
Disclaimer: My sister DID in fact go to urgent care. There is photographic evidence that he left bruises on her arm. He checked her (hockey style) into the door with his hockey stick and the door knob hit her in her already infected kidney. The doctor's said she was lucky it didn't rupture. There is medical proof but at the time, she covered for him and said that her and him were play fighting and it got a little rough. And my mom doesn't pop pills, she takes medication for her thyroid, high blood pressure and high cholesterol.
We're to the point, as a family, where my mom doesn't feel safe in the house. She's called me several times in various instances, where she's crying, stressed out and at wit's end. She called the crisis hotline and she dialed the sheriff's office only to hang up. I can understand her hesitation to call the cops on her own son, but it's getting to the point where enough is enough.
We're breaking as a family. 
