The lovely @rare tagged me to do this Q&A blog post so here I am! Also it is going to be @rare's birthday in about a day and a half so if you know her and haven't wished her a fabulous birthday yet, now you know so head on over to that sweetie's page and wish her well! With that now said, here we go!
Let's do this.
1) Have sex with the lights on or off?
I have no preference either way really. But, if forced to choose I'll go with lights off since it's very mysterious and just limbs and other things moving about in the dark and merging with one another yet again so it is pretty awesome I guess ;)
2) Have one partner or multiple partners in a relation?
Again, I have no real preference in this arena of sexual inquiry since I've been in both types of relationships before and both have their own distinct problems/issues to deal with and communicate about in order for those relationships to work correctly. But, I'd go for one special person over multiple partners but I don't really believe in "soulmates" or the myth of "the one" so I don't know if that'll ever happen for me tbh. No biggie in the end though because either way, I'll enjoy my life and partners along the way! :)
3) Pay for sex or be paid to have sex?
Getting paid for sex would be amazing honestly. I choose that. Having said that, when in Amsterdam I did visit the Red Light District multiple times during my stay there haha!
4) Be on top or bottom?
I like it when women are on top and taking charge honestly! Also, see next question for further answers as to why women on top rocks for me!
5) Have your hair pulled or slapped on the butt?
I have had my hair pulled and I am good with that. Getting slapped on the ass doesn't happen as much but I'm not against it at all. But my real favorite is getting smacked in the face while a woman is on top :) (See above question if you need context for why I added that extra answer!) I can't explain it, but getting slapped in the face is pretty fucking awesome imo!
6) mistakenly send nudes to your boss or your neighbour?
Nope. That would never happen since I work for myself :)
7) Take a body shot or have one taken off you?
I enjoy taking a good body shot off of someone! I'm not such a fan of having body shots done off of me personally but would do so if asked anyway.
8) Be kinky or a romantic in bed?
They are not mutually exclusive concepts so I say both can be accomplished at the same time with two (or more!) like minded, consenting adults. However I acknowledge that romance can have its place solo as can kinky. So, there is that to consider too.
9) Have a partner who fakes their orgasm but gives perfect oral or a partner who truly orgasms but is terrible at oral?
Definitely the latter. Who wants to be with someone that you can't make climax?? Also, if you're not climaxing, give your partner some pointers on what you like people! Communication in sexual encounters is vital!!
10) Do it in an abandoned building or in a public park?
Both choices are good! The abandoned building for the sheer eerie vibes from an abandoned building and that subtle hint of possible danger. One the other side, we have a public park which also carries the allure of potentially being caught and having an element of danger especially since it's far more "public" than an abandoned building!
11) Skinny dip at a pool or the ocean?
So again, either! Pool skinny dipping is great but ocean skinny dipping? That's the ultimate freedom! Shit, I'm more pro ocean skinny dipping I guess after all haha!
12) threesome male male female or male female female?
I’m alright with either, yet again haha. I prefer MFF but MMF is not a bad threesome either!
13) If you have to choose a roleplay in the bedroom which one would you choose?
I've always been fond of the "princess and the commoner" role play. The partner is the princess and I'm the commoner and it's very unacceptable for her to be with me in social settings at that time in history (like 18th or 19th century) so it's extra sexy in it being against the "rules."
Well, that was fun! So that's that! I'll tag, @bluenicorn @haub @neyona @lorry @felicity @nug @vexaltyn @chroi @narublu @willowblack @jadestoner @nevergoodbye and @sarahpinkshot So hopefully one of you haven't taken this Q&A yet! Have a great weekend everyone!