Being interactive on SG. So over the past few months I have tried increasing my status from lurker to a little more active. I dont always have the time as I work an incredibly busy schedule...I guess this will show me how many of you ladies with hundreds of friends pay attention to us guys who pine after you so much.
Okay. So. Being more interactive, Joining groups, adding friends. done and done. I find myself in the groups occasionally posting and mostly lurking. Not for the purpose of looking at things and running away with the booty. Pun intended. However, because I dont know how to openly post some of the things I want to. Like any guy I have visited the sexual groups first....your big boobs appreciation, masturbation, and ass appreciation. I belong to 3 non sexual groups...one about dogs. One about medical professionals and another about hockey.
When it comes to these groups people who regularly post on there intimidate me. I feel as if my posting there isnt right, or I may be out of line for some things to say, ooooorrrr Im just not as open as others in there. I dont want to be the typical guy telling you girls about the pictures you post in there about "how hard they get me" etc etc etc.
So I guess what this stems from is insecurities of not knowing what to post. I cant post risque photos of myself like some of the other guys do because well, if the job position finds out some how magically. Im fucked.
So, friends of SG, how do I go abouts joining the river of posts by fitting in? Especially when I dont get to be on here as often, without being a creep?
Another things that has perplexed me. This is a site aimed at artistic creations, not just some smut site. However, It is aimed towards most males. So how does a male go abouts adding a male on here without feeling weird about doing so?
"hey bro, I like naked chics and you like naked chics, lets be friends."
Is that how it works? I havent really gone to any male member pages to see if they have other guy friends. I just feel that its okay..but still feel on the edge about it. I dont want to be that guy that only has girls on here as friends for moral standards.
I dont know. Maybe I am just high strung and I should loosen up.
So, for who ever has read this an leaves a comment of advice. Thank you.
(hopefully someone reads this! lol)
Okay. So. Being more interactive, Joining groups, adding friends. done and done. I find myself in the groups occasionally posting and mostly lurking. Not for the purpose of looking at things and running away with the booty. Pun intended. However, because I dont know how to openly post some of the things I want to. Like any guy I have visited the sexual groups first....your big boobs appreciation, masturbation, and ass appreciation. I belong to 3 non sexual groups...one about dogs. One about medical professionals and another about hockey.
When it comes to these groups people who regularly post on there intimidate me. I feel as if my posting there isnt right, or I may be out of line for some things to say, ooooorrrr Im just not as open as others in there. I dont want to be the typical guy telling you girls about the pictures you post in there about "how hard they get me" etc etc etc.
So I guess what this stems from is insecurities of not knowing what to post. I cant post risque photos of myself like some of the other guys do because well, if the job position finds out some how magically. Im fucked.
So, friends of SG, how do I go abouts joining the river of posts by fitting in? Especially when I dont get to be on here as often, without being a creep?
Another things that has perplexed me. This is a site aimed at artistic creations, not just some smut site. However, It is aimed towards most males. So how does a male go abouts adding a male on here without feeling weird about doing so?
"hey bro, I like naked chics and you like naked chics, lets be friends."
Is that how it works? I havent really gone to any male member pages to see if they have other guy friends. I just feel that its okay..but still feel on the edge about it. I dont want to be that guy that only has girls on here as friends for moral standards.
I dont know. Maybe I am just high strung and I should loosen up.
So, for who ever has read this an leaves a comment of advice. Thank you.
(hopefully someone reads this! lol)
sofarsogood:
i'm kind of going through the same motions of trying to make friends and be social on the site. most attempts have been shut down due to some people thinking i'm a 'creeper' under-cover as a female. no. actually. i am a girl and that's really me...and still not many friends. going on chat with a webcam may help get people to know you better. that's been suggested to me as well.
signal7:
We will see. I'll see if just blending in works lol!